Hmm, well, there's actually a lot of servers that's branched out using the original IT server. Like Dragon's Den, Last Moon, Sanctum of Eventide, Impressive World, etc. Below are their website links if you'd like to check them out:
Last Moon (http://lastmoon.boards.net/page/lmhome)
Dragon's Den (http://dragonsden.freeforums.net/)
Sanctum of Eventide (http://sanctumofeventide.us/)
Impressive World (http://impressiveworld.kamrbb.ru/)
Of course, there's many IT servers out there. You just got to find the right one that you feel comfortable around. As for the preset bit, I know not. But I hope you get that figured out quite soon.
Hoped this helped, even a little bit.