This would be a wonderful idea, but like Jango said...the only way to do that is to move the camera up when tabbing out. Nobody has the source to actually put that in the game. :/
UGH. I always wished for this!
I'm not a click-to-move kind of person, & I would always accidentally click at the worst times in serious role-plays or whatever & my character would spaz across the screen as I quickly tried to fix it, LOL.