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Title: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Echoing harmony on March 11, 2015, 01:01:46 pm
Well I sure you all know of the Mate center of bonfire.. And I'm a little concerned now. Because it's a little wrong and bad influence if we have kids under 10 playing. They also spam and use caps way to much..

With curiosity, what is your opinion on Mate Centers?
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Vespian on March 11, 2015, 01:36:18 pm
Vespian doesn't necessarily view Mate Centers to be a negative influence or somethin' worth "shuttin' down", no. Less, of course should things go a bit overboard but that doesn't dictate every Mate Center's behavior. Just that one. The Centers in general have been around FeralHeart and have been the hot spots in Bonfire Island since nigh the first release. They serve as a multitude of entertainment purposes and have over the years evolved into quite a popular trend. Scarcely does Vespian waltz into Bonfire Island to either see the Centers perched 'round or a couple users questionin' where they are if any are absent.
Some entertainment users can get out of the Mate Center in particular is: Findin' yer character's one true love, findin' someone to role-play with, proudly showin' off/displayin' yer character's appearance to others, idle chit chat with the other participants, etc. Believe it or not, but I too have participated a couple times just for the heck of it. Although, not too often for I'd rather just blend in with the crowd. Aye, some Mate Centers type solely in all caps and I do think they do so in order for those circled 'round to be able to read their messages without fret of missin' it amongst the wave of other conversations goin' on. Though, this isn't bad less it's full fledged spam. To which, ye can easily block they and report 'em to a staff member. Vespian speaks in caps too from time to time, mainly to be overdramatic or to express excitement, but it's not a bad habit in general. If it was, I don't think a caps lock key would've been placed on the keyboard.
As for the concern of 10 and under individuals involvin' themselves with love, well that's their choice. So long as all's kept appropriate, Vespian doesn't see much of a problem. For all I know, the two paired individuals could just be seekin' someone to cuddle a speak with for a while. Nothin' more than that. Again, I am aware not all agree with the Mate Centers existence within the game, but less they are breakin' the game's placed rules, ignorin' 'em or even blockin' is better than showin' displeasure when they haven't done any intentional wrong.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Jango_Fett on March 11, 2015, 04:10:12 pm
I've been waiting for something like this to appear again.

-Clears throat-

I myself, used to have a Mate Center character.
Before you gasp and throw things at me, let me finish.

I never used caps or spammed, and was annoyed when I was told to use them.

But honestly, I'm fine with Mate Centers. They can be sort of fun, and that are just too easy to troll.

Most of the time it isn't a 'bad/evil influence', it's too outrageous for that.

I don't really find them as a bad thing, it's just a thing that exists that can be sort of fun.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: WhiteLightHeart on March 11, 2015, 04:18:17 pm
I agree with the other two, actually. People give MCs a (usually undeserved) bad rep for one reason or another, usually because they're assumed to be rule-breaking spammers. Which, more often than not, it's quite far from the truth.

Bad influences? Nah..
I can understand someone suggesting that it's like a "dating simulator" of sorts, but the vast majority of people understand that it's just a way to pair up characters with others who are seeking a roleplay partner or new friend. Instead of running around and being labeled a "mate beggar" if you even whisper into the distance that you want to start a RP with someone, they can go somewhere where other people are seeking someone else to RP with. And, it's usually somebody who appreciates your character design, and you appreciate theirs. Which is pretty sweet. :D

Generally, I like MCs. They're selfless users who decide to enrich the game for some fellow players by offering up their time and pair up players to RP together.

That's not to say every single MC ever has been a good apple (and there are some that can get annoying, or maybe take things too far), but the principle idea is innocent at heart. If they're taking it too far, simply screenshot and report as you would with any other rule-breaking user.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Wyldercat on March 11, 2015, 06:24:17 pm
Well, I don't really see them as a bad thing.
I'm quite neutral on the subject, actually. Yes, they do tend to spam occasionally, but at least people wanting mates can find one without spamming individual people. However, I could see how it may appear inappropriate, but it could just depend on the people in it and the people around it. If it's just for a harmless starting-a-family kinda roleplay, then MC's are good for that... but if it's a bit more... you know... then... well, yeah.

But honestly, they don't really bother me much.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: wolfdog01 on March 11, 2015, 07:00:32 pm
Mate centers don't bother me too much, I actually watch them  a little sometimes. At in the later hours sometimes giant cars like to run into them and troll them HARD. Super funny lol, even when the MC gets butthurt over it and blocks them. It's still funny.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Yognaught on March 11, 2015, 07:23:39 pm
I don't really mind them. Let people do want they want to do, of course, if it's not breaking the rules. It gives people something to do, and sometimes I do find myself wandering in there with a troll character to see what happens, and in truth, a lot of people get up for me, because in my experience, a lot of people are there for the lol's. It's also a good way for less experienced players to get introduced to rp patnership, even if it doesn't suit "ur litrat standerds", I think it's an okay thing. c:
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: StarrieNova on March 11, 2015, 08:10:18 pm
I honestly see nothing wrong with Mate Centers. They all around a bit innocent in my eyes. All it is, is basically a bunch on people sitting in a circle getting to know one another. If someone is too shy to go out and talk to someone then Mate Center helps with that. It promotes others to join in, and just go to someone they think looks cool, cute, fun, or even attractive in their eyes. Once they are picked they could enjoy getting to know that person because they were simply picked for the same reasons. Those who aren't tend to be adventurous, and talk among the others in the circle causing those pairs to leave without being called on.

Yes, Mate Center spams their caps lock. Though I am sure when asked to tone it down some they will. I know I have asked them before, and they politely did. Mate Center usually is a fun little place for others to enjoy visiting. [Plus I understand how people think that Mate Center promotes rude or gross sexual behavior, but in all honesty it doesn't Those are the bored members themselves that promote it. A lot of times Mate Center is just another form of being social, and promoting role-plays to be made. I honestly like Mate Center. Granted I don't go there to find a mate. I just go there to find someone to talk to most of the time. Or just have fun messing around with them. Though I do apologize or give them all hugs afterwards. ^^
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Echoing harmony on March 11, 2015, 09:28:22 pm
Aye, just a random question of mine to ask. But you all do make fair points on Mate Centers. I normally block them so I won't be bombarded with spam while I'm rping, some also give me headaches if they are too outrageous wih colors. But normally I just keep them on my lbloack list for awhile then unblock them later.
Anywho, thanks for your guys opinions
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: DreamerDay on March 11, 2015, 11:23:29 pm
I don't see anything bad on getting a mate, even tho Mate Center can lose yourself along with a few others. However, one thing I can't stand about it is when Bonfire just lags because of that one stop that everyone won't stop complaining. I mean Jesus Christ. Just calm down. Watch if they don't like you. -realizes I'm going off topic- Sorry, had a moment. Anyway, personally...to me...Mate Center don't bother unless its when the Mate Center write in Caps. I hate when someone writes in caps, unless we're being random. xD

Personally, the way I define Mate center is chance to roleplay and find a mate. And once you find your true love, you can roleplay and have the many family you want. And PUPPIES. Omgh. I just love a happy family. Really. I really don't think about (me) finding a mate but the roleplay. Its usually the roleplays I enjoy.

Anyway, yeah.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Katniss-The-Wolf on March 11, 2015, 11:47:34 pm
Well, you do make a clear point about spam and lag, I myself block the mate centers if they use Caps and what not. But then again kids under 10 wouldn't understand something such as the definition of 'Mates'.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Minglesz on March 11, 2015, 11:56:13 pm
My opinion is that I just don't like them at all, MC's is a reason why we call Bonfire Lagfire...But still, I wouldn't go as far as calling them a bad influence. But also keep in mind that this is an opinion, so I'm not telling you what to not do. But by all means, I wouldn't call it a bad influence.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Amatis on March 12, 2015, 01:24:40 pm
I personally don't see anything wrong with the Mate Centers, other than the occasional individual running it spamming the chat with "OPEN!!"
I think they're fun, convenient ways for shy members new and old to join in the fun and find some new friends ^^ It's like picking a lab partner on the first day of school. Sort of.
I guess.

Maybe not.


Point is, there isn't really anything bad about Mate Centers, at least in my opinion.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: whitewolf223 on March 14, 2015, 02:15:56 am
I enjoy them. They give me something to sit by and watch, laughing at all the failure and rage that is created by them. So I can't honestly say I don't like them, they've never done anything to me beside make me laugh.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Redlinelies on March 15, 2015, 03:34:05 am
Mate centers can be a mixed bag if I will be honest, and therefore my opinion regarding them ends up on the edge of a fence too.

If we speak of the main idea of what the mate center is meant to be, a circle of users doing some sort of match-up with their characters to have so called "mates" to accompany each other or just roleplay together, I see it as a genuine good thing. It's also as others have mentioned before, it keeps people occupied, they have fun and involve many users at once. Even though some users mix it up with "mating", it's still not there for that reason.

In practice though it might not always be that calm and well and problems can easily pop up. Many if not most mate centers tend to be extremely loud(matter of speech) at many points there's a lot of caps going on, and in many cases the countdowns they have could be more considered spam. Since there's usually something going on there, it also easily becomes a good spot for users to go to to "troll".

I can see the good in the mate center, and I can see why some users would use it. Not to step on anyone's paws or anything but I do believe majority of the users that has gotten past the "newbie" stage of playing FeralHeart and reached a slightly older age even, will rather find a so called mate as far as away from the mate center as possible, since it's not really serious enough for their type of roleplaying or interest. Because that's what it is, MateCenter is a very unserious and plain way to get a mate for your character, and even the most new users will learn that rather quickly. But for many it's still fun, and people will do what they think is fun. Mate centers sometimes tire me out since you do tend to need to observe them and make sure people behave, and even though I don't really like them by any means I don't have any reason to really dislike them, especially if you look on the FeralHeart game as a whole and what it provides to many new and younger users.

So even though mate centers is a good thing, it's certain it comes at a prize.

I'm neutral towards it.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: GamerChic on March 19, 2015, 05:27:21 am
I personally have never participated in a Mate Center.

One thing I truly hate about some of 'em is the fact they auction off people-- like really trying sell 'em, y'know? Like these people are selling bloody cars or something... And, I dunno. It's kinda unsafe getting into a committed relationship online [okay maybe not committed but still]. x.x I mean, people do it all the time,  yes, but like-- you never even speak to the person you're about to become mates with... Does that bother anyone else? ._.

I dunno. I just find them weird. Like-- you're going to some sort of human trafficking ring.. owo''

But, I get where some people are coming from when they say that Mate Centers aren't bad, which not all of 'em are. Well, at least they don't seem bad. xDD

Yep. //opinionwars.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: .Ghostly. on March 19, 2015, 08:15:18 pm
*snorts* I have mixed opinions on good ol' mate center. I think it's a little.. odd. Reminds me of speed dating. But in my opinion that's just matching someone up with someone you don't really know. But it's entertaining to watch. A little emotional too.. But yeah.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Vrisk on March 23, 2015, 11:35:11 am
I don't have much against them, if you're too lazy to take time growing a relationship, Mate Center is the right place to go, that's basically what i think about Mate Centers. MCs can be a nuisance for me when it spams, write long sentences in caps, and act very immature.

I have participated in a mate center once just to know how it feels, you know, experience  :)

But the thing is, i don't think mate center is a bad influence since all it's objective to is pair up two people to RP as mates or friends.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Jango_Fett on March 23, 2015, 02:04:51 pm
I have participated in a mate center once just to know how it feels, you know, experience  :)

But the thing is, i don't think mate center is a bad influence since all it's objective to is pair up two people to RP as mates or friends.

Not even once

But yeah, I think Vrisk has summed up most of my feelings towards them, if I hadn't gotten it across already.
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: kaya on April 06, 2015, 09:48:42 am
Vespian doesn't necessarily view Mate Centers to be a negative influence or somethin' worth "shuttin' down", no. Less, of course should things go a bit overboard but that doesn't dictate every Mate Center's behavior. Just that one. The Centers in general have been around FeralHeart and have been the hot spots in Bonfire Island since nigh the first release. They serve as a multitude of entertainment purposes and have over the years evolved into quite a popular trend. Scarcely does Vespian waltz into Bonfire Island to either see the Centers perched 'round or a couple users questionin' where they are if any are absent.
Some entertainment users can get out of the Mate Center in particular is: Findin' yer character's one true love, findin' someone to role-play with, proudly showin' off/displayin' yer character's appearance to others, idle chit chat with the other participants, etc. Believe it or not, but I too have participated a couple times just for the heck of it. Although, not too often for I'd rather just blend in with the crowd. Aye, some Mate Centers type solely in all caps and I do think they do so in order for those circled 'round to be able to read their messages without fret of missin' it amongst the wave of other conversations goin' on. Though, this isn't bad less it's full fledged spam. To which, ye can easily block they and report 'em to a staff member. Vespian speaks in caps too from time to time, mainly to be overdramatic or to express excitement, but it's not a bad habit in general. If it was, I don't think a caps lock key would've been placed on the keyboard.
As for the concern of 10 and under individuals involvin' themselves with love, well that's their choice. So long as all's kept appropriate, Vespian doesn't see much of a problem. For all I know, the two paired individuals could just be seekin' someone to cuddle a speak with for a while. Nothin' more than that. Again, I am aware not all agree with the Mate Centers existence within the game, but less they are breakin' the game's placed rules, ignorin' 'em or even blockin' is better than showin' displeasure when they haven't done any intentional wrong.

Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: toasterkitty on April 11, 2015, 09:37:02 pm
well i mostly see them as fun places to go get my car and troll XD but what i think of mate centers is quite neutral its just finding someone to roleplay with but then there are those few people that will try to be rude and 'mate' which ruins the fun for alot of people
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: UserNotFound on April 12, 2015, 07:34:55 pm
I sort of have several different opinions for Mate Centers. To be honest (my personal reasons), I both dislike and like Mate Centers. I wanted it to be more of like getting know to someone first before you become an official couple. I participated a couple times, and some people rush the relationship if you know what I mean. Automatically becoming mates then moving on to family all in one day. It just kind of ticks me off. What if you don't have anything in common and then dislike the person? That's my point. Another reason is some of the people there pick their match by on their looks, not personality. I understand if you never talked to the person and learned anything about their personality. Atleast try to pick them and get to know them before you become mates. The reason why I like Mate Centers are that they amuse me, especially the Mate Center's caps just to get attention. I like how some people go there and troll. It's just that.. I dunno. B
Title: Re: Opinions on Mate Centers?
Post by: Dngerboom on April 15, 2015, 10:34:57 am
Back in the day, When I first started off, I found Mate Centers for me a way to expand a network of new friends. Wasn't really thinking about conducting a 'relationship' with my character, which somewhat pissed off a few people *I wouldn't have met you if I didn't join the darn MC, Ya Looney Tune!* In addition I like to show off my characters color schemes and/or presets to others. But since BLACK is the thing to pick oh yeah know whatever, haha.

But now a days. I just find it amusing and a area to troll.
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