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That was so true and very well written... And to be honest, it changed the way I look at Powerplayers and Godmoddersplayers and Godmodders... :) Good job!
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Name calling is awful. I've experienced it on fh a few times, but more in real life.
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@SwiftFlight: Yay! I'm glad it helped someone. Thank you! C:
@Forests: Yes, it really is. And it hurts allot too..
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I agree with Silvertide on this.
Again onto Powerplayers; if they continue to explode on you/annoy you after you kindly say to stop, then that's different. That's when your point comes in, so I completely agree. On the other hand, if it's someone that didn't know, it's completely different. We can teach those ones. C:
And for the rest of it, I completely agree also. You explained that very well there.
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Thank you, I hope that my little addition to the thread will help people as well. And I forgot to add but you mentioned some things I never thought of before, good job on that.
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Ok -breathes deeply.- I have kept this to myself for months now because no one believes me when I tell them ... but you know the fightwolves? Well they originated in Bonfire Island as FIGHTDOGS because they were originally streetdogs stolen from their owners. They were trained as fighters blab blab blab took over Ficho Tunnel now blab blab blab the point is... I have a confession ti make. And I am not trying to just get attention and I am not lying about a single word of this. You may hate me for this or think I am totally awesome for it but... one of my characters was the very first FightDog in FeralHeart.
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There was a guy in my group that godmodded- well, he was quite more... A frenemy at this time. I was mad because he was acting not injured, but he had not alot of good RP experience. I told him what he was doing, that correcting his godmodding problem as soon as possible would be great. He never did. He was kicked out of the group and kept saying it was my fault, and threating me of names. So yeah... ;w;
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That's great, woofkita! Usually ''first things'' of anything can be known as legends. xD That's what always happens here, anyways. And I never knew that, but the FightWolves are literate and friendly now, so.. meh.
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Yeah, it's not .. very friendly when people do that. You can't really blame anyone for anything, even if it was THEIR fault, blaming you or anyone else is just.. :'| Next time, GET 'CHO CLAWS OUT AND GIVE THEM THEIR DEATH NOTE! (LOL sorry no I'm just kidding xD Music makes me hyper.) NEXT TIMEEE... Idk. :c Block? Report? Meh. I'm lazy so I have nothing else to say. Just. I don't like *THOSE* powerplayers that continuously attack when you ask them to stop. Otherwise, if they don't know, we canz teach 'em!
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Well, it's a normal thing in life that happens to us all.
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Well, it's a normal thing in life that happens to us all.
Agreed. I wish bullying never existed..
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I'm ashamed of myself for not finding this earlier, anyhow..
It's very true what you say, it's way too much bullying and name calling going on everywhere.
Even I have recently been spoken about behind my back, no surprise there, yet - I don't really take offence of it. Yes, I do question whether I need to change and what not - but I usually speak openly about it between friend or whatever to see if this person is right. I don't go around moping about it.
It's kind of a two sided situation here. Even if a person does call you names or whatever, you need to be strong in yourself and actually think 'are they right?' If they aren't, then they aren't and you will know that.
If they are right, well, perhaps it's a good thing they did say something - gives you insight and time to change.
Godmodding/powerplaying - Hm.. Yeah, a lot of people aren't fond of that, though.. Nobody says you NEED to RP with them.
Where does the line go?
A simple discussion/nice comment from you like "Hey, you know that wouldn't be realistic, right?" You could even 'teach' them how to RP properly if you had the time and patience, or simply point out what they need to change to make it better.
There's never need for name calling in this case. Some people might not be as educated/old/experienced in such matters and need to learn. Let's face the facts. We all started somewhere, didn't we? I mean, I remember when I was a husky pup in South Pole posting entry's like "*Shivers*" or "*Shives because of the cold.*"
Some people simply need to open their eyes and realize such things.
Feral Heart is for all of us to have fun, I've met a lot of people here who are/have been bullied in real life, they don't need internet bullying from all of us.
Though, sad to say, we'll never escape bullies or ignorant/selfish/arrogant people. Yet, we can learn how to handle the situations.
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I'm ashamed of myself for not finding this earlier, anyhow..
It's very true what you say, it's way too much bullying and name calling going on everywhere.
Even I have recently been spoken about behind my back, no surprise there, yet - I don't really take offence of it. Yes, I do question whether I need to change and what not - but I usually speak openly about it between friend or whatever to see if this person is right. I don't go around moping about it.
It's kind of a two sided situation here. Even if a person does call you names or whatever, you need to be strong in yourself and actually think 'are they right?' If they aren't, then they aren't and you will know that.
If they are right, well, perhaps it's a good thing they did say something - gives you insight and time to change.
Godmodding/powerplaying - Hm.. Yeah, a lot of people aren't fond of that, though.. Nobody says you NEED to RP with them.
Where does the line go?
A simple discussion/nice comment from you like "Hey, you know that wouldn't be realistic, right?" You could even 'teach' them how to RP properly if you had the time and patience, or simply point out what they need to change to make it better.
There's never need for name calling in this case. Some people might not be as educated/old/experienced in such matters and need to learn. Let's face the facts. We all started somewhere, didn't we? I mean, I remember when I was a husky pup in South Pole posting entry's like "*Shivers*" or "*Shives because of the cold.*"
Some people simply need to open their eyes and realize such things.
Feral Heart is for all of us to have fun, I've met a lot of people here who are/have been bullied in real life, they don't need internet bullying from all of us.
Though, sad to say, we'll never escape bullies or ignorant/selfish/arrogant people. Yet, we can learn how to handle the situations.
You explained that very well, and I agree.
You said some things I've never even thought of before. ;3
Yes, though, people do need to be strong. Sometimes it can just go too far for some people, because I have a friend who suffers depression and tried to.. well, ya'know.. many times. It breaks my heart to see ANYONE with this problem. </3
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You explained that very well, and I agree.
You said some things I've never even thought of before. ;3
Yes, though, people do need to be strong. Sometimes it can just go too far for some people, because I have a friend who suffers depression and tried to.. well, ya'know.. many times. It breaks my heart to see ANYONE with this problem. </3
I shall probably not mention personal things on here, but feel free to PM me if you're curious.
Anyway. I know some people can have a difficult time being strong and dealing with such things. We're all different, I'll tell you that. Sometimes you simply need one or a few good friends to help you cope with things, but you should not always rely on others, you need to learn to be strong.
Build a wall and think "Why should I care what this person thinks? They don't know me." .. Which they usually don't. They assume and make stupid judgements for no specific reason.
I'm sorry to hear about your friend, by the way, I suggest encouraging her into seeking help - if she hasn't already. Many do not think it'll actually help, just that it's just another person listening to their rant, but it really does help a great deal of people.
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''Shut up, you don't know me. Don't judge a book by it's cover.'' <- I love that quote. ;3
I agree with you, and err, I know how it feels. I've never really was bullied, but I have the ability to share someones' feelings, like, for instance, I know what it's like to be depressed and bullied, although it never really happens or happened to me.
I think I know what you're on about, but sometimes it just hurts so much that it feels like nothing can get better. </3
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''Shut up, you don't know me. Don't judge a book by it's cover.'' <- I love that quote. ;3
I agree with you, and err, I know how it feels. I've never really was bullied, but I have the ability to share someones' feelings, like, for instance, I know what it's like to be depressed and bullied, although it never really happens or happened to me.
I think I know what you're on about, but sometimes it just hurts so much that it feels like nothing can get better. </3
I usually go by "Don't judge the wolf by it's fur.", but there are many other quotes, for example the one you mentioned. :3
I cannot say that I can understand how everyone feels in every situation, but I can to an extent.
I've gotten by quite nicely when it comes to bullying. I've been called names, I've been laughed at, and other things.. Yeah, it has all left its scars - but the thing with me is that I wouldn't want to change or prevent it all from happening, mostly because it's formed the person I am today.
I may not be the strongest, I do have my faults like everyone else. But I do see myself as a good friend most of the time, and hey, that's at least something, right?
What people need to understand when it comes to people with depression is that you can never 'forbid' them from harming themselves or whatever they are trying. You can only be there for the person, try to make them realize how much you care for them and how much you would miss them if you were gone. Forbidding them from doing these things will only make things worse. And yes, I do speak from experience.
Bullying can do so much to a person, it can ruin them completely, or it could make them stronger.
Sadly, a lot of people do get ruined because they cannot handle it.
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I agree with you there too.. xc
As I speak for myself right now, I usually don't give a flying ferret if someone hates me, bullies me, calls me a name, etc. I just get on with my life and not really care. x3 Have you ever had this feeling? So basically, if someone says ''I hate you, you deserve to die you motionless weirdo.'' I would be like ''LOL, so what's up?'' And not in sarcasm. Unless, of course, it starts to hurt.
I agree, it does make you stronger. There is also another thing my brother said to me when I felt sad or hurt myself: ''The more it hurts, the stronger you are.'' I usually agree with that, and I mean emotionally and physically.
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Hmm. Well. To be honest, it all depends on WHO they would be. If they kinda knew me, I'd be offended. I'd not get sad, I'd get upset and eventually - after thinking about it, it'd turn into anger which I'd let run out as I wouldn't speak to them. ;P
If it was a friend of mine, if I knew they were joking - I wouldn't really care, depending on what they were saying. If they meant what they say, yes, I'd be upset - I mean, who wouldn't be upset if your friend thought such negative things about you?
That's a lovely saying. :3 I should remember that one.
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Yes, yes, it happens many times. xc I suppose there is nothing we can really do about it other than try to sort it out and stay strong, though. c:
Agreed also.
Usually it's just a joke, but it can get a bit frightening. What if they meant it but didn't want to upset you and pretended it was a joke? I usually think about that, but that's just me and my stubborn personality. ;w;
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Yes, that's usually what happens in my head as well. If someone tells me to "shut up" I usually do and just, pretend as if it didn't bug me.
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Amazingly written. Perfect for the whole "Bullying awareness: stuffies going on.
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Thanks Sly. c: Much appreciated. x3