Hello there. Seeing as you seem to really like RP'ing/hanging out, I believe Feral Heart is the right place for you. ;3
Your dislikes are probably shared by many, though, I've personally started caring less about the whole godmodding/powerplaying/matebeggars part.
Hey, people like different things, am I right? Do what you do and if people are unhappy with it, continue elsewhere. ;3
You seem like a generally nice person from what I've seen. :3