When you export a preset, it spits out a file called a .fph into C: >> Feralheart > presets.
You have to give that download to people if you want them to see your presets. Without it, they'll see a normal creature.
If you did give them the .fph already, make sure you're logging into FH with the same user as it is on the .fph.
You should try preset sync. Anyone who has preset sync will be able to see your presets.
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