EDIT: WHOA. I totally misread your post wrong. My apologizes. Let me edit this. Gosh I've been misreading every post lately. -facedesk- ._.
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Buttswinging is definitely inappropriate and against the rules. I'm not sure if you can convince them to play Feral Heart. To be honest, it's up to your parents and their decisions. Though I can assure you that the staff do their best to moderate the game.
Good luck!
EDIT: @Alpha: Yeah, I misread her post. XD Sorry, Bella. However, ty for pointing that out, Alpha. c:
@Bella-- Really, it's all up to your parents. ^^ I can promise you this: The staff keep Feralheart a safe, loving game, and I'm sure you'd be fine. I will be honest; yes, there are some people who do break the rules, but you could contact a mod with just a few clicks of the mouse and in-game, there is also a "block" button to block out anyone is is on your nerves. The game is highly monitored by our trusted staff members and kept very safe. I'd highly recommend PMing a staff member for more help concerning your issue. Good luck, Bella!
Edit: Here's the staff list: http://www.feral-heart.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=28&Itemid=52 (http://www.feral-heart.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=28&Itemid=52)