Haha I can definitely relate to this.
I do that all the time! Sometimes I'll just sit in-game if none of my friends are on and stalk the chat without saying anything. If I don't feel like Roleplaying I'll just tab out of the game and chill on the forum or on DA, then just click back in every once in a while.
Or I will pop in as my fursona, but as soon as I get into a map I'm just like "...Bored." and switch characters, and then as soon I get back in as a different character, I switch right back to my fursona.
The struggle is real.