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Community => Leaving => Topic started by: ArcticGalaxy on June 17, 2016, 04:00:36 am

Title: Leaving...
Post by: ArcticGalaxy on June 17, 2016, 04:00:36 am
I'm really sorry for posting this but...I have to leave. Don't know how long it will be. I really didn't want it to be like this, but it's going to have to. I won't name anyone, but basically someone I once called friend has taken everything I have said out of context and now she has pinned me as a bad person. And I'm just going to give it to you all straight, doesn't matter if I ruin my reputation on here at all. She basically just thinks that I'm jealous because I'm not a mod. I guess. Don't know, don't care. She has also blocked me on DA were the journal came from so I can't even defend myself. So the best thing for me to do is leave, because she has already spread her dang rumors too far, and now I'm going to look bad. I'm very glad to have been made MOTS, but I don't deserve it I guess. And I know that I'll have people telling me this is all for attention. But it's whatever. These are my true colors people. A mean, nasty person. I'm sorry I failed you all...
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: Hakumi on June 17, 2016, 04:09:16 am
Not going to say anything to stop ya Mamoo. I just really hope that things start slowly looking up to you. If you ever need anything, you're free to contact me.

Some things just happen & people just naturally think differently.

I wish you luck. I am going to miss you dearly Carrot ?...
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Post by: Aclediptus on June 17, 2016, 04:32:45 am
Aww, the carrots are gonna decline.
I am very thankful to bump into you back in the old Bonfire and I had good times knowing you better, you've been very generous and patient with my spontaneous messages. Hope the conditions would get better for you as time flies, if you have needs of any kind, I and the rest of the community are willing and happy to serve you. Best of luck!
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: amythealpha on June 17, 2016, 04:40:59 am
Aw,  I'm very sorry to hear that. I don't know you well, but I hope everything goes well for ya. Also, I think you're very kind and helpful :)
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: Preach on June 17, 2016, 09:51:30 am
Sorry to hear they also spread rumors about you. Well hope you feel better.
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: ArcticGalaxy on June 17, 2016, 09:52:30 am
Honestly, I don't think I will exactly leave. Just...keep a low profile until all of this is sorted out...
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: Reaper on June 17, 2016, 09:58:53 am
Aww Artic, I am sorry to hear that. I hope things go well for you. <3
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: .Pixxel. on June 17, 2016, 10:01:56 am
I know we don't know eachother, but I have seen you in-game and along all these threads, wishing everyone good luck with their packs. You praise everyone and Im not sure why 'she' is spreading horrible rumours. You are the sweetest person I know! I cannot believe someone would say horrible things about you.

Of course, its your decision. Im sure most of us would hate the thought of you leaving... but, I guess its your choice?


See you.
Pixxel
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: hugrf2 on June 17, 2016, 10:59:31 am
Argh. I'm so sorry that's happening to you, Arctic. X_X Doesn't sound like a good situation at all, but I hope the problem solves. If not, then we all know the truth nonetheless, that those things aren't true. Even if you are "a nasty person", you've still been nice and helpful to people which is why you've earned the title of MotS, no doubt. I don't really think you are a nasty person, though. I've bumped into in-game before myself, and you don't seem like that. And you have not failed anyone, in fact, quite the opposite.

More likely this "friend" of yours has failed you there. They've failed to communicate and instead, decided to make you look bad without asking for confirmation or anything.

Yeah, though. Taking a break/keeping low is probably best, to clear things up and stuff. I respect your decision, and hope this drama poofs away soon for you. 8c //petting//
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: ArcticGalaxy on June 17, 2016, 11:09:41 am
Thank you guys so much. I'm probably going to stick around though. Maybe keep a bit more hidden though. But yeah, I let my anger get to me yet again and ended up making this post on a whim. Basically just...kinda ruined my reputation. xD Aw well, nobody to blame but myself!
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: Wyldercat on June 17, 2016, 01:50:35 pm
You shouldn't denounce yourself like that, dear. We know these are just rumors. It's terrible that someone would do this to you. However, if you feel like laying low is best, we respect that. We will miss your activity dearly though, and we will welcome you gladly when this is all cleared up and you can fully return to us.
Stay safe. <3
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: CosmoFursi on June 17, 2016, 02:06:14 pm
Oi, I know what it's like letting your anger get out of control. *believe me, I threw things at people when I was mad*

The important thing is that these rumors aren't true. You're a good person, Arctic. I'm glad to know you. Not gonna let some words people say change that, until I know they're true. But, these words are rumors, and I know they aren't true.

Don't let people get under your skin. Don't even blame yourself for what people say about you. I honestly hate it when people go like "Oh this person's a jerk" when they're literally the nicest person on the planet. Like seriously, why people >.>

But yeah. Don't let people get you riled up. That's what they want from you. AGain, trust me, I was bullied back when and wow did I give them the reactions they wanted, haha. Mm, jokes aside, like my quote says, "You are who you are, no one can tell you otherwise."

I know I said a lot, but I just woke up and saw this, heh. Remember: Don't let people control who you are, and don't let them get under your skin. <3
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: Jango_Fett on June 17, 2016, 02:26:01 pm
Hey, if you ever wanna talk about it, hit me up on dA.
I've been through something similar recently, and I know how you feel.

It really sucks Arctic, but you shouldn't let this person ruin your reputation and enjoyment of a community.

But if you really wanna leave, you can. Just remember my door is always open.
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: CeramicSoul on June 17, 2016, 02:27:29 pm
Aw, Arctic. If shes doing this then shes WAYYYY not worth YOU. Arctic always know you have Friends here that will always be there for you and support you. <3 Feel free to Pm me~ And don't be so hard on yourself.
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: bomarbones on June 17, 2016, 03:32:29 pm
Poor Arctic. I know how that feels. Sad to hear this is happening to you. Whoever this 'she' is, tell her to stop, and its none of HER beeswax. Eventually, Just ignore her. I hope you will get this all sorted out. You help everyone and I cannot imagine what horrible person would do this to you. You are a sweet, helpful person, and nothing can change that. Those rumors are absolutely untrue. I know that. I have someone inn my school named shelby, she is so bratty! She will not leave me alone and she spills rumors eeverywhere. Try and sort this out, and I hope that all goes fine. Dumb hotheads. Never know when to stop. I wish you prayer to get through all of this. Like I said, just ignore her. We are always here for you. Never let them ruin you. That person just sounds so hotheaded, and I cannot imagine what you are going through. So sorry. I'm not stopping you. Go ahead and leave. Sort things out.  ;)
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: G4RG0YLE on June 17, 2016, 03:41:11 pm
It's sad that people make you out to be a terrible person just because they took your words out of context, and it actually upsets me that it's gone so far you've made the decision to leave. I'm so sorry this has happened to you, and I hope you feel better/decide to return soon. <3
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: greenart6 on June 17, 2016, 03:50:31 pm
I'm really sorry to hear that happened to you! Don't worry, I can say that we don't think any different of you from this post---those are just rumors, and I don't think you're 'mean' or 'nasty'.

Sucks to hear this person did something like that, though. Just don't give them any attention or satisfaction for what they've done is my advice. But if you want to lay-low for the time being, I respect that. If you ever want to talk, you can always try contacting me---I'm not the best at advice, but I can try to help.

Just don't let those rumors get to you. They're only rumors, after all.
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: Kynvuu on June 17, 2016, 05:19:30 pm
Aww Arctic :c I'm really sorry to hear that this happened to you. Unfortunately, there will be people like that, but just stay strong and try not to think too much on it. We all have your back here if you ever need someone to talk to or just someone that will listen to you. Wish you so much luck wherever you may go in the time being, and I really do hope you return<3 Take care~
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: DraconiaHeart on June 20, 2016, 06:41:50 am
I'm really sorry for posting this but...I have to leave. Don't know how long it will be. I really didn't want it to be like this, but it's going to have to. I won't name anyone, but basically someone I once called friend has taken everything I have said out of context and now she has pinned me as a bad person. And I'm just going to give it to you all straight, doesn't matter if I ruin my reputation on here at all. She basically just thinks that I'm jealous because I'm not a mod. I guess. Don't know, don't care. She has also blocked me on DA were the journal came from so I can't even defend myself. So the best thing for me to do is leave, because she has already spread her dang rumors too far, and now I'm going to look bad. I'm very glad to have been made MOTS, but I don't deserve it I guess. And I know that I'll have people telling me this is all for attention. But it's whatever. These are my true colors people. A mean, nasty person. I'm sorry I failed you all...

I know your feelings all too well my dear
I know how you feel, and have had similar happen to me as well. Tis why I lift my older account to go into hiding on my new one. Things have changed yes, but some things do still cling to me like a stinky sock. Though I m choosing to ignore it the best I can, and prove my own horrid rumors that follow my tail wrong. I wish you luck, and I give you all my best wishes. If you ever wish for a shoulder I am here, and you can easily find me on DA if you ever wish to talk there dearie. For now though I am here for you in spirit and soul. I wish you the best love.
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: ArcticGalaxy on June 20, 2016, 06:51:13 am
Ah I almost forgot. All of this has been solved and taken care of, and I shall be staying. So sorry for this. It may be locked. ^^
Title: Re: Leaving...
Post by: hugrf2 on June 20, 2016, 07:48:04 am
I'm glad to hear that, Arctic. <3