Community => Leaving => Topic started by: Wyldercat on June 19, 2016, 03:49:58 pm
Title: I feel my time has come.
Post by: Wyldercat on June 19, 2016, 03:49:58 pm
I never quite thought I'd be posting this now. Better to end it properly, I suppose.
It pains me, but I feel like this community no longer has place for people like me. I'm too quiet, and far too cynical to socialize with others properly. I just feel like I've lost connection with the community. I've been loyal for 2+ years to this community and I still feel like a stranger when compared to other members. I also find myself getting annoyed for no reason when I view certain topics, and I think it's for the best if I take a break. How long I'll be gone, I don't know. All I know is that I'm going to be mostly forum inactive. I'll still attend events and such, and appear frequently in game, but the forum community is starting to get "old" for me. I don't know why. Maybe because I lost my innocent wonders of the forum, and I want all memories of it to be entirely positive. I remember joining and looking up to the hero members at the time in awe, thinking how amazing they were to be so loyal and loved, and now that they're all gone or inactive, I've lost nearly all my idols, and I feel... incomplete? Alone? This is turning into a rant, so I'll cut this post short here.
Not like it matters, but I hope you can all respect my position and decision. Thank you, those who have been there (you know who you are), for giving me the best years of my life.
Until next time, ~Twisted (aka Scuttle)
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Post by: Ruby1234 on June 19, 2016, 03:58:28 pm
Your reasons for leaving are understandable. I'm sorry you couldn't find much of a reason to stick around. I hope you find something else that really grabs and holds your interest.
Have fun out there!
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Post by: Wyldercat on June 19, 2016, 04:03:02 pm
Thank you. This game is still VERY dear to my heart, and I won't be completely absent, at least not at first. I will be taking a complete leave at some point during my break. I'll just be dropping out of the forum community for a while.
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Post by: barghosts on June 19, 2016, 04:04:35 pm
I'm sorry you feel the need to hiatus from the forums, until we meet again dear friend!
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Post by: Reaper on June 19, 2016, 04:08:27 pm
I understand, and I hope things will go good for you. Farewell.
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Post by: Wyldercat on June 19, 2016, 04:22:17 pm
Again, thank you.
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Post by: Warriorstrike on June 19, 2016, 04:35:54 pm
I'm so sorry to hear that you don't feel like you have a place here. You've always been so sweet and kind to me, and it saddens me to see you go. I understand your decision, however, and I hope that you find happiness and enjoyment wherever you're headed. You will always have a place here and should you ever return, we would be happy to welcome you. <3
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Post by: Kastilla on June 19, 2016, 04:51:03 pm
So sad to see you go, Twisted. I can understand what you are feeling -- I once felt the same about this 'ol place.
I bid you luck on your future endeavors!
Cheers `Wolfie A. Begley
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Post by: kiaz1st on June 19, 2016, 05:40:02 pm
I understand why you're going. I'll miss ya, and the forums will feel that bit emptier without your face round here, but it's also good that you've made this decision for yourself. I hope I get to see you again sometime :3
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Post by: Preach on June 19, 2016, 05:40:09 pm
Sorry to see go. We'll be here when you return.
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Post by: Wyldercat on June 19, 2016, 05:42:29 pm
Thank you all, again. I'll miss this place.
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Post by: Hakumi on June 19, 2016, 06:11:39 pm
Aye Scuttle, You had something intelligent to say or some lovely inputs here and or there and you are definitely helpful when a floofs was in need. Sorry you have to leave the forum community but you know what's best for yourself more than anyone else. Your reasons are pretty understandable and I can't help but think it sometimes too.
But all and all, you're pretty rad and hopefully you'll enjoy yourself whereever you may go next ^^
- Pandeer Rubbing on the Snout -
Have fun & until next time ~!
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Post by: ArcticGalaxy on June 19, 2016, 06:44:31 pm
*clings* Really sorry you feel this way. I may not know you 100% yet, but I'm going to miss you! Thank you for your help around the forums and for helping me out when I needed it! And if you ever come back, we'll all welcome you with open arms! Until then though, farewell and I hope you find happiness. ^^
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Post by: Morqque on June 19, 2016, 08:41:39 pm
" I've been loyal for 2+ years to this community and I still feel like a stranger when compared to other members." ]
I feel the EXACT same way. I've been active and helpful but I always feel left out on the forums. And I get jealous when I see all of the well known members hanging out together. And also I look up at you and everyone else on the forums as "higher ups" and "better" than me. I always thought about like coming up to you and talking to you but I felt like i'd be like...turned down or something. And it's the same with everyone else
I'm going to miss you a lot
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Post by: Kynvuu on June 19, 2016, 08:48:50 pm
Aww, its sad to see ya go Scuttle :c But your reasons are quite understandable. Sometimes, certain communities aren't for everyone, ya know? Do take care where ever you may go though, I wish you the best of luck and I'm sorry that you've been feeling this way.
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Post by: Wyldercat on June 19, 2016, 10:02:52 pm
Thank you for your kind words. I'll keep you all in mind if I choose to return.
I feel you, Zircon. I too felt inferior to the so called higher ups who claimed to be helpful. Despite my best efforts to help, I always felt overshadowed by the spam of the same advice over and over again. If you still want to talk to me, you can find me on DA, Skype, Steam, etc. I don't bite. I've been meaning to approach you for some time infact, I'm just too shy.
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Post by: Enoki on June 20, 2016, 05:09:06 am
'Twill be sad to see ye go. We had some good times roleplaying and I'll miss seeing ye roaming the forum. Of course, I understand y'er d'cision completely and I hope that ye'll still visit frequently on the forum later down the line. ;3 <3
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Post by: greenart6 on June 20, 2016, 06:00:55 am
Ah, I feel the same way as you, man, so I completely respect your reasons for leaving. Just can't help that, I guess.
Best of luck with whatever else you decide to do <3
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Post by: DraconiaHeart on June 20, 2016, 06:46:21 am
Tis understandable why you are leaving love I can respect your choices, but if you ever wish to come back love we are always here to welcome you.
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Post by: hugrf2 on June 20, 2016, 08:03:19 am
It is indeed understandable why you would leave. It is sad to see you go, but perhaps someday we may interact again. For now, though, I'll wave goodbye to you and I wish you well. <3
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Post by: Aclediptus on June 20, 2016, 08:06:09 am
Your reason is very relatable and I'll respect your decision to be in decline. Sometimes you're up, sometimes it feels like a caste with you at the very bottom. It just doesn't work out for certain people, and we all would have our personal reasons on why that is.
Personally, I don't click well with possibly anyone but a few rare people, which makes it a lot harder for me to be active and socialise, here in the forums or Feral Heart in its whole is no exception. I'm sort of an odd person, and honestly I was thinking that I could've gotten the chance to know you better. The only thing that holds me back would be my garbage confidence, but now it seems that it wouldn't happen any time soon.
Wish you the best of luck and I hope to see you sometimes.
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Post by: Rostova on June 20, 2016, 08:11:48 am
You were a wonderful forum fluff, but i understand your reasons for leaving us.
Honestly, your one of the people i look up to here on the forum.
I hope to see you in-game though, I'm glad your not leaving the game altogether.
And if you ever decide to join us here at the forum again, we will no doubt welcome you with open arms.
Goodbye, but not forever :)
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Post by: Wyldercat on June 20, 2016, 03:08:02 pm
Thank you all. If anyone still wants to keep in touch, feel free to contact me via my profile links.
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Post by: G4RG0YLE on June 20, 2016, 03:11:05 pm
I understand your reason to take a break from FeralHeart, TwistedLizard. I wish you the best of luck with whichever path you decide to take. ^_^ FeralHeart will always be here to welcome you back should you decide to return.
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Post by: Wyldercat on June 20, 2016, 07:05:09 pm
Forgive me, but I must give one final rant before I depart.
There is more than just feeling left behind that I am leaving. I'm deeply bothered by the morals and social method of the mainstream forum community. Now this is not a jealousy thing. That is beneath me. I simply do not feel that this is right. Many users are glorified, but I feel few don't quite deserve it, or others deserve it more. No, not because a user is new or immature that they do not deserve praise or to be one of the "higher ups" in the community, it is because I feel that the few "cheated" their way to their glorification. Spamming compliments in other boards is not a bad thing, quite the opposite. However, doing the same in help boards, sending the same advice for problems to which they do not apply is not really helpful, is it? It is attempt, of course, but if there is no prevail, and the advice continues to be spread for others with the problem, whom are also not helped, it creates confusion instead. I have seen users who contribute marvels to the game get little recognition, yet someone scribbles something in minutes and is glorified. I honestly don't even think I should be where I am (or like to think I am) from my simple years of contribution. But I will repeat, this does not mean newer or younger users should be overlooked, and if they do something amazing, anyone who contributes should be given the same recognition regardless of time, I am just stating my opinion, that those who contribute more, and are more loyal to the community, should in turn receive more. This isn't a new problem, or even truly a problem, as this is just my opinion; but I am no longer able to overlook it for the positives. I hope that whoever has made it this far into my rant will try to understand, and think about this, even if just for a moment.
This will probably be my last post in this topic. I will continue to read though. I will still be on the game and sometimes on the forum, in the early days of my leave, that is. Thank you.
Title: Re: I feel my time has come.
Post by: Wyldercat on July 04, 2016, 04:20:32 pm
Alright, time for the hypocrisy. I have decided to stay a little longer. I'm going to try and wait out the summer, and then decide whether to stay or leave. I doubt I'll be SO active anymore, but I'll at least be able to see more now again.
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Post by: .effervescence. on July 04, 2016, 07:11:22 pm
Until next time, my friend. Farewell...
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Post by: D-ead7Dog on July 11, 2016, 02:35:35 am
Good luck and take care!
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Post by: Warriorstrike on July 29, 2016, 01:05:54 am
I will go ahead and lock this, seeing as you have returned. c: