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Re: Death to the Parents?
« Reply #10 on: September 06, 2014, 07:29:24 am »
I for one prefer to see how it would affect my character. If said character was at a young age, they may be scarred, but if they were older they should expect that, Y'see?
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Re: Death to the Parents?
« Reply #11 on: September 10, 2014, 02:52:31 pm »
Ah yes.... the parent killing.
In pretty much every Disney movie I've seen, the parents are killed off, and I guess that's where it all started. I think it's really unneeded; it's a bit scary whenever I hear some little girls playing princess and one says "Let's pretend our parents died!" "Okay!". A bit unsettling, how kids think that it's okay. I can't say for myself, but it's awful being an orphan.
You know, Stargazer, you may just have a point there about Disney. I mean, aside from kings and princesses, I'd would probably hate being a parent in a Disney film. Let alone, the main character's. Anyway, yes, this could possibly be a factor that adds to the trends of parent killing with people's characters. It is such a mainstream aspect, the people usually shrug it off like, "ok, let's kill the mom, no one cares."

As some people said before, it could also just be from laziness. I, myself, have shared in just being lazy in establishing parents because either one, I just would like to focus on something else with my character. Then, there's the other reason of just brushing it off. Before then, I just killed off the parents like, "meh." These days, I'm being more creative with parents and how they contribute to my character's story. Why can't Disney take my example! Mufasa didn't need to die!      
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Re: Death to the Parents?
« Reply #12 on: September 11, 2014, 05:41:14 pm »
This isn't just Disney, mind you. Animes have a ton of it. Various video games, other movies that are not related to Disney as well.
It's the number 1 kick starter for any "amazing" character. It is the most common thing used when making any character. Which is why most people are drawn to it. They are familiar with it all too much that they use it. Even if it is twisted up, it's kind of like a reflex to some people to explain why their character doesn't have one.

Especially on FH, having an actual parent that is still alive, still active, etc is REALLY difficult to obtain. Yes there is always the whole: parents left option, but if you say "my parents are dead for [insert reason]" it's 1: a conversation starter [even if they are seeking attention], 2: A way to give their character certain tragic traits [extreme determination, motivation, want for revenge, closed off and doesn't speak much, more hostile, the want to be someone good, or even bad, the possibilities are limitless!] Yes there are always other ways to achieve these traits, maybe they were born with it, maybe they had it thrust upon them by some tragic event. However, to fill in blanks without spending ages on making some elaborate story as to how you are who you are now, parents death will always come up first.

It may be annoying under some [okay maybe most] circumstances, but what can you really do about the matter?

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Re: Death to the Parents?
« Reply #13 on: September 11, 2014, 10:24:13 pm »
I have also spotted this in character bios and descriptions of the family.
It's either they killed their parents, the parents died and the children ran away, or the parents got killed by something no one knows about. I personally think that this method is a waste of time.
People try and make it dramatic and creative.
But it has stopped working quite a long time ago. It sure is hard to find a parent in game, but you don't need to kill them off if you can't find anyone.If you decide to permanently end their character's parent's lives, put some effort into it.

Another thing I don't like are completely and stupidly unrealistic killing stories.
"A Fox killed my wolf parents"
Really. A Fox. Firstly, a Fox wouldn't even try to kill an adult wolf.
Second, it wouldn't kill two either. It would be the other way around, if it had to happen.Why did your parents get killed by a tiger? Your a horse?

That's all I can say. On a phone, typing like this is like writing an exam paper. 

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Re: Death to the Parents?
« Reply #14 on: September 15, 2014, 06:43:40 pm »
Honestly, I think people kill off their character's parents or say that they didn't know their parents was because they want to start out fresh and not want to have to create a whole back-story on the character, not look for people to play as the parents of the character, or think of the names for the parents because they want to role-play as that character. They don't want to put everything about their "Family Tree" in their bio much of less have to think about it. I, myself, I guess am one of these people but I don't say that 'my parents were killed by _____' and act dramatic about it, I just put they're deceased or they're unknown. Because I don't want to think about the whole Family thing unless it took part in a huge role-play plot of some group.
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Re: Death to the Parents?
« Reply #15 on: September 17, 2014, 05:50:22 am »
Honestly I never really noticed that. xD
I guess I make some parents in my characters bios pass away due to the fact of wishing to make their story a bit more interesting. Though other times I just tend to make their bios tragic by using other ideas.

Though I am not sure why I like to make tragic bios anyway. xD

Yet I would like to find people, and make a good story with them, and have them be my parents then just let them die of old age or something. I do hope to find a good rp soon that would end like that. ^^

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