You've misinterpreted me entirely. Understandably but no, that's not what I was trying to say.
The fault would rely on the factors specific to the case; if a child is being irresponsible, that's their fault, but no victim is guilty of being victimized (Unless something is direly wrong with the situation and somebody forced another to victimize them, which is more possible than one would like to think--but children generally aren't as dirty as that. That's more of a gross adult trickery.). If that makes sense.
No, I was instead pointing out the opposite of it--that LordSura seemed to indicate that by their useage of dismissive wording. They seemed to say 'hey, if something bad happens to a kid lol we warned them so' and that seems irresponsible to me. Of course, this is constructive opinion and I'm probably coming off too condescending as always but my intentions are less arrogant and more genuinely concerned over the younger users in Feral Heart. There's a lot of them, you know. They need to be managed properly or someday, somebody is going to get severely hurt irl as consequence of mishandling the duties moderators are in existence to take on.
As for those with lesser literative skill, it's a sort of hit and miss thing in every roleplaying community. Honestly I recommend they read some good books before trying to write their own stories--gain a better foundation for the expression of language. Language is an art, and the most I can say of most users is... they're doodling.