I agree with Aroxy (the comment she's made) & Kah.
Seriously? Love to be a choice? I think I'm going to cry from laughing too much. Srs bzns.
Love CANNOT be a choice. As Kah said, you do not choose to love someone. It happens, whether you like it or not. In my opinion, love is even impossible to fight against without being hurt at least a bit.
Also one more thing... I think saying 'I love you' to someone after a month isn't a big deal. And it /certainly/ isn't a big deal if you have known the person from before. But saying 'I love you' after you've been dating for.. Idk, five days? A big no. x_x Mostly, people don't care about it. They like, go around saying 'I love you' to anyone.
I highly doubt it's just me, but saying 'I love you' to someone is pointless unless you really mean it. I don't mind the jokes about it though, hell I do them myself. xD
& I disagree with a statement on the comment the other person has made; "if you go through life acting as if it's a feeling then every time you say "i love you" to that boyfriend or girlfriend your giving small parts of your heart away every time.. "
I really, really disagree with that. You give your heart away /ONLY/ if you /really/ mean it when you say you love someone. And I highly doubt that someone really loved every bf/gf they had if they had about 25 relationships. x_x
But even if you do give your heart away 25 times, in the end there's this thing where someone comes and puts all your pieces back together.
It's called marriage, darlings. :]
But don't get me wrong, marriage is not the only thing that can put your broken pieces back together. I believe that with every new love experience, when you truly love someone, your pieces come back together. ;]