Feral Heart

Does this mean it's the way the servers will run for now on?

Is adding more security really all that hard for a game?
I'm pretty sure he could at least spend some time making sure problems like this won't happen again. I've known several people who have proven their abilities that they are able to manipulate the code rather well and honestly it makes me feel rather uneasy and glad those people are long gone from the game. But it's not like Feral heart is something along the lines of a Paid game where you have to worry about credit cards being stolen and stuff. I know he has no interest in further updating the game I just find it a bit sad that so much stress has to be put on the mods that care so much about the game and more things like this will happen in the future.

Thank you everybody for the lovely advice.
I'm afraid I just received some disturbing news about said person.
Now I realize that perhaps it is never a good idea to stay with someone if they don't really give a hoot about you or your characters. I know that now and I plan on never making the same mistake again.
To avoid further contact I have learned that literally a lot of my characters have been left without active mates for a while as it had been months and even years since I RPED with them. I have decided to have them move on with their lives.
For those who are more loyal hopefully they find a male and or a female that can treat them right.
I thank each and every one of you for your helpful replies as I know topics like this are usually seen as a useless matter to think about.
Hopefully we all can find those who will care for our charries just as much as we care about them.

I appreciate anyone for their advice xD
The situation is a bit hard because said person hasn't exactly moved on yet they are just entirely devoted to roleplay after new roleplay and the problem is that I don't think they'd take it very well if she were to move on.
However I have thought about what you all have said especially the comment of what thinking about what would happen in real life and say this were my daughter instead of a character. I'd honestly want her to be with someone that would look after her.
Usually the mates my other charries had who has had their users involved with other groups found a way to be with them at least once or twice a week or even a month.
However I thank those who have given me help so far but I am open for more opinions as to what I should do
I'm afraid to say I'm honestly a bit submissive talking to them about these type of issues because of past events.

I know roleplay relationships don't exactly last forever and more than likely the person goes inactive and the roleplay just seems to move on from there but I'm talking about a partner in real life whom I have been growing apart from for quite some time.
I sometimes feel like they are avoiding me and to be honest it hurts and we both play Feral heart.
The particular character I'm talking about is one who has a history with said partner's character yet also has a history with another male character.
I don't want to do anything to upset this partner but her character is almost never around and I don't mean to sound a bit harsh or overly indulged in roleplay but it is kinda sad when her pups always ask where their Father is in the roleplay.
Now she and this other male was once the OTP for an older roleplay haha.
And everybody thinks they should still get back together but the thing is I draw my outer feelings heavily away from what my characters are feeling.
And said female character is extremely lonely and often wonders whether or not her Mate just up and left. Now at the same time she's terrified of falling back in love with the other male not because he abused her or anything and they moved past their past issues, in fact they were Teenage sweet hearts.
She's afraid of falling back in love with him because she doesn't want to hurt her other love who has made some questionable mistakes in their relationship. I wont say what but cheating is not one of them....however you could say that the mistakes would have the same affect as cheating though this happened long ago but the way my character is designed she tends to be very self conscious.
Maybe I'm overthinking this but if someone claims "Rights" To your characters in the sense as they belong to my character is it wrong to have your character slowly look towards another if they are never on. And I'm not talking for a couple days or weeks I'm talking months and maybe even a year. I follow the code that the flow of time within a roleplay does not stop for anyone and thus of course actions are going to happen and it's just a little saddening that her pups always seem to grow up with an absent Father.
I hold deep care for my characters as some of them are inspired by dear friends who have passed. This is my way of somehow giving them a happy ending when their own ends weren't all that happy.
So any ideas on how I should vent her feelings out ?