Well, though you might be leaving Animal Jam, this section is more for leaving the FeralHeart community, rather than another one.
I'll move this over to Other Games for you, since it's probably our closest fit.
I am sorry to hear about your concerns with AJ, though. I've never played it, therefore I can't put much into the discussion, except that sometimes games (especially popular and growing games that are raking in the dough to make updates) will make little "power-ups" or level-up advantages that reward users for being around, or putting money into the game, etc.
I'm not sure if this is the case, but I do hope that it works itself into something more comfortable soon.