Feral Heart

I'll be only talking about this part since that block of text is giving me a headache. No fault on your own, I just can't handle it unless it's chopped up nicely. XD!

" 1- Is the person suffering from depression, stress?
  2- Will this affect my future? or is it important?
  3- Will me being positive, drive the other person to be positive too?
  4- Does it waste my time?
  5- Should I take it to seriously? "

1.) As a long-term sufferer from depression whom did not know the signs of my own disease (IE, being /incredibly/ lazy, not wanting to do anything, frustrated with myself and my lack of strength in the emotion department) You should always remember that no-one person is the same. Some people don't like their body, while I am a perfectionist and want to do my best at what I do, not what my body looks like. Some people could pretend to be goofy and fun, and others would just put it right in your face. Some could be perfectionists and some could put up a front like bullying others or making themselves seem to high and mighty to hide the fact. (Darn it I made my own block of text. Shoot.)

2.) You never know if you are going to have an effect by helping the said person. I've heard of a story when a pediatrician pushed himself to the absolute limit to save a child from certain death that looked nearly impossible. Cue in a good few decades in, and that said child saved the pediatrician from certain death when everyone ignored him. So, push yourself to do the best you can with what you have. <3

3.) Honestly, don't force yourself to be a grumpy emo person just so that person feels like they don't have to be positive. Neither should you force on a happy face just because of the pressure. Be yourself, whether that includes being a hairy chubby mammoth of a female, or a skinny little twig of a male. Maybe the hairy chubby mammoth has an incredible amount of self confidence and can help the skinny little twig of a male be himself and grow stronger just by the mammoth being their self. (Making fun of myself and my boyfriend, lol!)

4.) Anything that you can scoot into your schedule that is a good deed that may or may not be seen by the world should be done. Maybe you'll run a bit late with your boss, but you could save someones' life by pushing them away from suicide just by giving a bullied teenager a hug and telling them only their opinion and theirs alone matters to them, that they should ignore the bullies.

5.) Take it the way you would take it, flaws and all. Showing yourself as yourself is much better than pretending to be the best optimist in the world. I, myself am sometimes looked down upon by my blunt (I curse in private w/ friends.) and slightly rude I've been told? Personality? Eh.

That's my thoughts.

Your points are very interesting and I apologies for the large paragraph I wrote lol, that's what happens when have so many thoughts. Anyway, let me get to the point. You mentioned throughout that you must be yourself, and that is an important thing, but sometimes the way to be yourself is not right. For example, if you have a bad attitude and you use it within a stressful situation, it's not going to make things better. Literally, this is mainly for people who need to be more resilient, which therefore doesn't mean they don't become their selves anymore. It just means that they become more understanding and knowledgeable about what situations they have experience. I also must say that this is not a force to be resilient, sometimes it comes with maturity, being in a different environment or learning new things. It's in fact, much more better once you develop it. If you push yourself, you will be positive. If you do that, you become more resilient.

(If you ever come to my threads, it's the island of big paragraphs ).

I completely agree with you. I'm always trying to tell people to really think about what's important when it comes to arguments. Everyone is different and everyone has different brain waves and experiences in life which effects how they feel and act. It's important to realize this, and when it comes to arguing about things and such, it's important to think if it's really worth it. How does this specific thing effect you? If someone wants to have a character be a certain way, then let them as long as it's not hurting anybody. There's too many issues already in the world to be adding to the drama over stupid things.

True, and we are missing out on a lot of people like that, so stay that way. <3

Thanks for suggesting your ideas, it made me learn something new!

From my own personal experience, depression has no connection to humor, not in my dictionary, nor brain. That person who made the jokes paralleling people with cancer or depression is called disrespect, carelessness and immaturity. It's a good thing you blocked him, his mistake lies on his hands now to fix. Although that person protected you, still be cautious but be open and friendly. By that, I mean you should take care by how close you get as friends, because no one knows what the future might hold and what he/she can do to you. But, it's a very thoughtful thing that's done.

Understanding can be a difficult thing if the person doesn't know where to begin or hasn't been 'exposed' to it in their environment and you can't really blame them for that, it's not like they asked to be brought up like that or anything.

All in due time, with a little guidance , encouraging words and the patience, I'm sure people can see this a whole lot better than now.

( Sorry if my thoughts were practically all over the place , I can be a bit of a scatterbrain when it comes to these sort of discussions, Lol.. )

That's a really good point actually! I started out being really confused on my first argument and I did many mistakes, and people learn from them and develop to be more mature.

And you can say all you like, even if it's scattered. It probably means you're a thinker with lots of ideas yet to be investigated. I might be wrong, as I am investigating my ideas.

Oh my dear Rit ^^
I have missed you greatly my old friend, and am very happy to see you once more. I am glad to hear you have been doing rather well, and I must admit I was as astonished as you towards the new updates toward Feral Heart. It brings me much joy to see things change, and become something magnificent before our very eyes. To watch a game grow is like watching a small infant become an adult. <3

Also I mus admit I have been doing rather well. I have made a new name for myself. I have decided to try, and come back to the community to help others. Though this time I wish to start from scratch once more, and wish to shake off those horrid rumors from my past with my new account, and look.

Hello! <3 I have the same perspective too. The updated site, game, features are great! I can't be more happier for this growing community.

And yes, that is a great goal to start in the game. Let me know how well you're doing in the game or you need advice or even to give you a hand whenever. Also, if you started this account try and stay away from people who are bothering you, or else it will spread quickly that you are in a new account. But it's good to see that you are willing to start a new chapter! <3 One advice though if you will help people (and this is something I realized after my mistake), don't put other peoples problems in your shoes over the limit like saying that you are to blame overall because you are defending the person and you don't want them to get hurt. It made me very depressed because all the negativity went on me and I was rumored about as well.

Hope that helps and I wish you a happier future in the community of feralheart and real life! Lots of love.~

Quote from: ritat on June 20, 2016, 11:55:47 am

Quote from: hugrf2 on June 20, 2016, 11:29:42 am

Ahhhhh, Rita! 'Tis been so long, you've been missed <3333 It's so nice to see yah again - It's good to hear you've been doing well as of late!

I myself am doing fine, great even compared to some stuff that went on some days. I am happy at least, so that's good. x3 A bit emotional and snappy lol but happy.

Eeeee, I'd love to talk though. But first, may I ask why you left in the first place? I've forgotten, that's all. :{o

Hugrf! That's great too hear, and it's normal to come across days where you feel snappy, but remember to always move on and forgive.

And I had quite a story, but I'll make it short. As the years passed in the game, I loved it in the beginning and everything was great. As I grew up, I matured quickly and I changed. One reason I left is because of how isolated, hurt and ignored I was. Because I got involved with helping people problems, I began to feel like I wasn't appreciated and I was bullied, but I never told anyone. I lost so many friends until my whole friend request list disappeared, but not only because of this reason. I didn't know what to do or talk to, so I lost interest in meeting new people and became introverted, that's why it's my target to be open. I need to stay kind and warmhearted. Secondly, is because of life. I am focusing more on my future now and it's difficult to stay intouch online with people.

In the end, I hope for all the best and to stay positive.

Of course. x3

And aye... That's understandable. I'm sorry about that, though. It's very good you stay positive, though, Rita; I'm proud of you when it comes to that. And it's good that you're focusing on your future as well - I wish you good luck when it comes to that. ^^

If you have a Skype, feel free to add me if you wanna talk sometimes. 'tis hugrfnfacialhair.

Thank you for understanding. <3 And I wish you more good luck than you gave me, everybody deserves more than I do when it comes to luck and hope so I wish you the best! Also, I do have skype but there is something wrong with it so I need to see if I can make it work again (it keeps crashing).

Once again, hope for the best!!

Hello floofs! I stopped by yesterday to see how everyone was going and I saw an astonishing update! <3 It's incredible so I hope you enjoy it and the staff did an amazing job. As you all know I left and I some of you might be thinking 'How many times did she leave and come back to say hi?', well, a heart like mine does not forget places where I spread love. I won't be returning though, I just like to come from time to time and my life is pretty busy right now. So if you continuously see my face here, it means I'm only visiting. I am really enjoying my life right now even if it's escalating quickly, I thank god I have everything. So how are you guys doing?

And as always, you can chat with me whenever you want if you wish! I am still open for anything you want to talk about. From relationships, clothes, weird things or anything you like! I never consider anything unusual.