Feral Heart

So, I was on facebook and this girl I know posted this as her status:
"You say "i love you" to someone in barely a month... you have no idea what love is."


So, I commented on it, and someone else commented back opposing what I had put. Read the two comments down below, and if you agree with one of the two, post here with your thoughts about it, and if you don't agree with either, tell me how YOU feel about this subject. I really am interested in different people's views. I only have one request, please don't make this topic get religious. This is strictly about your views on love.


Comment:
"Hmm.. I used to think this too.. about people who say 'i love you' after such a short period of time. But if you really think about it, who are you to tell them they don't know what love is? But that's not what i'm getting at.. I do agree with you, but to a certain extent. I don't think that those couples necessarily 'love' eachother in the sense that they know what love is (..but what IS love in your book?). When you first start dating someone, you just feel like everything is perfect. They're perfect, you're happy.. You feel on top of the world, and that's what gives you the feeling that you're in love.. but.. isn't that what love is all about? And besides.. you tell your friends you love them don't you? But.. you mean it in a different sense then what a couple would mean it as. You tell your parents you love them.. but that's a different kind of love as a relationship or friendship, is it not? Love has all sorts of different meanings, and I don't think that just because two people tell eachother they love eachother even after what you say is such a short period of time is such a big deal.. When you get in a relationship with a guy that you feel is right, you're going to be waiting for the moment that you can tell him you love him.. but you're going to be wondering when that right moment is. If you feel it, it's there.. and some people might feel it quicker than others.. I don't really know what i'm trying to say.. but I know there was a point in that whole rant somewhere... lol"


Opposing Comment:
"allie- i don't know who you are or how old you are, but might i be as bold to say in short your comment was saying "love is a feeling, just go with it."
i strongly disagree with that. again, since i don't know you i'm not sure its my place, ...but i know love is NOT a feeling. ITS A CHOICE.
if you go through life acting as if it's a feeling then every time you say "i love you" to that boyfriend or girlfriend your giving small parts of your heart away every time..
if you keep giving small parts of your heart away, how much of your heart will be left for the person God has for you to marry??
but i do agree with what you said about there being several different types of love. thats something the Bible clearly teaches.."





So.. who do you agree with?
(and maybe you don't agree with either)


~Aroxy

My quote of the week;(or month.. or year...)
"I don't know what i'm talking about.. it get's all jumbled up in my head"


.. but you can call me Aroxy. I'm a college student working towards getting my AA degree, and I work for a waterpark.
I live in the 'sunshine state' of the US, and i'm a HUGE gator fan! My truck has gator stuff all over it:)

I'm a huge family person, usually spending quality time over at my only sister's house. I'd say we've become pretty close over the last year.

I was born in the country, and that's where my heart will always be.. even though i'm a city girl now.




* Another subwoofer for my truck.
* New clothes
* A Dodge truck (I have a ford :/)
* Rims and tinted windows for my truck
* To learn how to play my guitar. (I've had one for a while.. never learned how to play!)
* Gator seat covers, Gator floor mats and a Gator sticker for my back window(GOT ONE! ). (I already have gator dice, a gator steering wheel cover, and gator designs on the front of my truck and on the back)



I live to love and love to live!
I'd say i'm a pretty fun person to talk to and be around, so get to know me:)




I just recently got a boyfriend, and he makes me pretty happy(:

Oh, i've also recently become a huge Nascar fan.. My boyfriend's a major Kyle Busch fan (and i'm not so much.. but i'm not completely opposed to him either). I'm more of a T. Bayne kind of girl.. because he's a rookie, and he still won the Daytona 500!!


Anyway... my life's pretty awesome.. All i've been doing anymore is work, sleep, hang out with my boyfriend and work some more. I barely have time for myself!

The weather has been beautiful lately, so i've been going to the beach a lot.. can't wait until the summer, and then i'll just be lazy beach bum er'day of the week.


February 25th, 2011
So.. I just found out today that I was nominated for March member of the month.. that's sorta-pretty-really exciting if I do say so myself! I've also reconnected with not just one, but two online buddies that I haven't talked to in a long time.. and i'm really excited about that as well(:
I've had the last two days off work (thank the lord.. I needed them bad) and i've spent both of those days at the worlds most famous beach. I'm pretty sunburned right now too.. my boyfriend kept making fun of me all night about how lobstery-looking I was.. but hey, I think he's just jealous!
I've also reconnected with an old friend in real life too.. haven't seen her in over a year, so it was really fun going to the beach with her today. It's amazing how people change!

If anyone remember's me saying anything about my dog that ran away.. well.. I never found her ): but.. I'm pretty confident that somebody took her in and is taking very well care of her.. she definitely deserves it!

My other dog, Trixie.. well.. she's been driving me up a freakin' wall lately.. but I feel so bad for the poor thing. She's got this skin irritation that comes from the winter, and it's driving her crazy because it's so itchy.. We keep putting medicine on it, but it doesn't seem to be helping her. Wish I could just take the itch and pain away..

Anyway.. for anyone who's interested, just thought i'd update this thread a little bit. Going to be posting more in my journal though..

Thank you to anyone who votes(voted) for me for MoTM. You guys are definitely the best<3

~Aroxy