I would totally help you in FH
My username is Jayfeather55 and my main characters names are RuneofIce, Blackfur, and Jayfeather. To chat privately with someone, you double click on their name in the chat box and a window will pop up. Look in the lower leeft-hand corner of the mini-window, and you should find "Whisper". Click on "Whisper" to talk privately with them. {Or, if your close to them, double/triple click on the character in the mid-section of its body, and click on "Whisper"}