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« on: January 08, 2017, 01:39:22 am »
i'm glad i'm getting a lot of feedback& genuine discussion on this! but at the same time i also feel a need to reinstance my own perspective on this Unusual Phenomenon.
firstly, i don't believe there's an inherent obligation anyone holds to anyone - thus if someone makes a group that follows a specific writing style or flow, and they want members to be able to reasonably accommodate that desired image, fine! with rp groups, especially very well constructed and plotted ones that desire, say, quality over quantity, sometimes it is best to be selective about who you let join. at the same time there is also no obligation for explanation as to why you might say no.
but what i hate about this divide is the undeniable lack of FAIRNESS people are treated with. it isnt just being turned down by groups or etc - it's stuff like being turned down and mocked, or ridiculed in public chat, or sarcastically being corrected in their type. the list goes on. that type of reaction is straightly unacceptable and yet it's so common, and people don't blame those for it? like i said there is no obligation to accept or explain or teach (but i applaud those who do because it is a kind thing!) but there's inherently an obligation for Basic Human Decency. group leaders that reject someone because a rp sample was not to their liking are fine. someone who doesnt wish to rp with someone else bcus there is no fun in it is fine - there's no reason for someone to force themselves to interact with another when it's just not.... there, and they're having no fun. but there's plenty of reason and an obligation for that handful of the Completely Rude& Superiority Complex Possessing group to just.... not do what they are doing, and have decency to be polite and not bully yknow?