Go with group B. If group A is drama filled and causes you misery then don't stay. Group A sounds like they are trying to always have somthing going on that causes people to be angry, plus if you are only respected when you are a high rank then that is just wrong. Does your girlfriend like the group like you do? Do you know her in real life? If she is a loving and caring girl then she will understand your choice to leave, if she will be destroyed then she is just as drama filled as the group. As Vask said, RPs are supposed to be an escape, somewhere you WANT to be, not a place you are FORCED to be. Group B is a positive group, and sometimes that can be hard to come by on FH. Trust me, you do not want drama in some video game, it's not worth it. I hope I didn't sound too offensive, I just get irritated with things like this ehehe....^^;