Honestly...I understand exactly what you mean.
I know I may seem very petty, and horrid for saying this, but I have been in those shoes before. I have wished to help this community to genuinely help them, but have been trampled all over for those who wish to keep their reputation higher than another persons. It bothers me greatly, and honestly angers me to no end. I know for many years I had been a stepping stool for many people I once thought were my friends. I have stuck my neck out for them many of times on my much older accounts. So much has happened in my past to where rumors even accumulated, and began to rip at me because of so many people trying to look good, and blame some of their actions on the nearest person they see as a perfect scapegoat.
I have been in those shoes way too many times, and honestly I had cried to many times just for feeling like I was betrayed by friends. So honestly reading this made me happy to know someone else realized like I did how fake some users can be. I know many may hate me for saying this right now, and many might wish me gone or to silence my maw. Though honestly...this is something that is going on in the community that seems to be the number one things everyone wishes to cover up. I know a good amount of users in my head right now who are the most insincere people since they were ones who had stepped all over me or good friends of mine. So I thank you for posting this. You basically blatantly said what I have felt, and watched in the community. We have the genuine good, and the ones with kitsune masks running about in the community. People who wish to be something bigger so they hide their true colors playing tricks on us, and blinding us to who they really are. So I thank you for posting up what has been weighing on my own heart for so very long.