I believe you may want to check your settings. There are ways to turn off messaging for floofs who don't want to get them. Go to your profile and check your Personal Message Options. If you have a * in the box, then that is why you are not receiving messages. For you not being able to send messages, it may be a problem in your birthday. I am not sure if there is a age limit to the messaging system, but it may. Anyways, it may just be a FH forum glitch. Try waiting a few days before you try to send one again. Hope you find the fix.