This is a very considerate idea, and I understand where you're coming from, but we're not able to add this option without completely updating the forum. If a user doesn't wish to provide their gender, they can leave the option to specify their gender blank. Although this option might be accommodating to other people, including those who wish not to be judged/associated/determined by their gender, I'm not sure that the website's layout formatting provides the option to add this function. However, this is a very kind and thoughtful idea, but I'm not sure we can successfully incorporate this into the website. Thank you for the suggestion, though!