Oh- others seem to of had this issue. I'd like to post a small update as to where my situation stands and bump/necro my thread seeing as my problem /has NOT/ been solved yet. I will also pm'ing staff.. again to try and gather more assistance since nothing was done the first time.
I can still not log into a character on my ZombieKitteh account without crashing. I still have the same problems and I have tried absolutely everything in the book. It is not client side Red himself said it was something server side via a pm. And now I have proof.
That glitch the other day with the server was messed up. Every one's usernames were acting up and I decided "Hey maybe if usernames are gone I can log into my main..." And guess what? It worked. Alas now that the server is fixed I am back to crashing once more, but possibly this bit of information will help staff to fix this issue further.
It either
-has something to do with friend lists
-Usernames
-or both combined
I Just.... want my accounts name back. :c
That was taken yesterday mind you.