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Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« on: August 30, 2016, 03:34:14 pm »
so... i recently went to a doctor, and it turns out i have a tiny bit of autism. meaning my brain works a lot differently than normal. and me, not knowing what that was at first, asked my mom, and she told me what it was. turns out people with autism are sometimes considered annoying because of how they act.

do i come off as an annoying person to you guys..? that's one of my worst fears; to be thought of as annoying. my mom told me i'm a very lovable kid, but that doesn't hep my fears.

so, some questions you guys can answer maybe...

~do i come off as annoying to you?
~is there anything that i do that you dislike..?
~what would you consider our relationship status to be? (friends, neutral, etc)



if i do come off as annoying... then i am sorry.

also, i see in some threads people complaining (or something) about people being "too nice" and "seeking attention". i realize i seem like one of those people, but i'm not. i'm a really kind-hearted person, and love to help whenever and however i can. and though yes, i admit i do have times where i want to be the center of attention, but i don't try to get that by force or anything.

so another question:

~am i too nice?
~do i seem like i wish to be the center of attention to you?

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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #1 on: August 30, 2016, 03:50:11 pm »
To me, you're the opposite of annoying. You're a great person to hang out with.
~do i come off as annoying to you?: No.
~is there anything that you dislike?: Nope.
~what would you consider our relationship status?: Friends!

~am i too nice?: You're very nice, but not too nice.
~do i seem like i wish to be in the center of attention to you?: No, not at all.
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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #2 on: August 30, 2016, 05:57:23 pm »
My little brother's autistic so I know how you feel. You're not annoying at all, just different. But then again, everybody's different. So don't worry, be yourself. :)

~do i come off as annoying to you? Nope.
~is there anything that i do that you dislike..? Nope.
~what would you consider our relationship status to be? (friends, neutral, etc) I don't know you that much so neutral I guess. I'm sure if I knew you better we could be good friends ;)


~am i too nice? Nope.
~do i seem like i wish to be the center of attention to you? Not really. You can't help wanting a bit of attention tho.

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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #3 on: August 30, 2016, 06:20:54 pm »
Oh deary, if ye were ever annoying, I'd tell ye. Y'er a fantabulous floof and don't let anyone tell ye otherwise.

~do i come off as annoying to you? Not at all!
~is there anything that i do that you dislike..? Nope.
~what would you consider our relationship status to be? (friends, neutral, etc) Definitely friends.

~am i too nice? Of course not.
~do i seem like i wish to be the center of attention to you? Lol, not that I can tell. Y'er a fine floof in m'eyes.

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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #4 on: August 30, 2016, 06:23:40 pm »
You are not annoying at all. You are a fun and creative person.


~do i come off as annoying to you? Not at all
~is there anything that i do that you dislike..? Nope!
~what would you consider our relationship status to be? (friends, neutral, etc) Friends of course :3

am I too nice? Nope
~do i seem like i wish to be the center of attention to you? Not at all. :-)


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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #5 on: August 30, 2016, 06:33:45 pm »
*rushes in and glomps* Don't you ever think that! You are an amazing and wonderful person and I'm so happy to consider you one of my friends!

~do i come off as annoying to you? Nope!
~is there anything that i do that you dislike..? Negative
~what would you consider our relationship status to be? Friend!

~am i too nice? No of course not!
~do i seem like i wish to be the center of attention to you? Still no!



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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #6 on: August 30, 2016, 10:47:04 pm »
I've never met you before, but I definitely didn't think you were annoying in the few posts I've seen of yours :) You seem like a lovely person.
~do i come off as annoying to you? 100% Nope
~is there anything that i do that you dislike..? No
~what would you consider our relationship status to be? (friends, neutral, etc)Neutral, seeing as I've never met ya

~am i too nice? Not at all
~do i seem like i wish to be the center of attention to you? Lastly, no again

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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #7 on: August 31, 2016, 08:43:58 pm »
I feel ye. Last year I was also diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder. It doesn't mean yer annoyin', quite the opposite in your case, actually!
Havin' autism doesn't make you, me or anyone else any less social necessarily. For instance, I was diagnosed with mild on the spectrum because I don't make eye contact or open up to new people. I mean, I'm probably annoyin' to some people, but tl;dr: Don't let the label get to you. You're the same wonderful person as you were before bein' diagnosed.
Woo, that was ranty. Anyways, onto yer questions.

~do i come off as annoying to you?
Absolutely not. Believe me, I actually get annoyed very easily, and a lot of other members can get on my nerves; but never you. Not even in the slightest.
~is there anything that i do that you dislike..?
Not that I can think of, so no.
~what would you consider our relationship status to be? (friends, neutral, etc)
As much as I'd love to proclaim friendship, as we don't talk too often (yet <3); I'd like to call you a friendly acquaintance.
~am i too nice?
No such thing as too nice, love.
~do i seem like i wish to be the center of attention to you?
Again, not in the slightest.

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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #8 on: August 31, 2016, 09:02:15 pm »
You aren't annoying, you're such a sweet and kind floof! I'm so happy that I got the opportunity to meet you and get to know you as a person. Hope to see ya' in-game soon! c:

~do i come off as annoying to you? No!
~is there anything that i do that you dislike..? No, there isn't. c:
~what would you consider our relationship status to be? (friends, neutral, etc) I consider you as a friend of mine.
~am i too nice? No, of course.
~do i seem like i wish to be the center of attention to you? I don't think so, nope.
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Re: Do I Come Off As An Annoyance..?
« Reply #9 on: August 31, 2016, 10:01:24 pm »
Listen to me very carefully. You're lovely, do not change yourself for silly reasons like other people thinking you're "weird", "irritating" or "too nice".
As you can see everyone here loves you the way you are. Stay that way.

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