I know you've spoken of this and I've replied to it elsewhere, but to me at least, it seems as though you're taking something that's not as big a deal as it was made out to be, and allowing it to fester between this friendship you've made. I'm definitely able to look at it from your perspective, because when this whole thing started I had the exact same feelings toward it. But as time goes on, I don't think this is something to split a friendship over. 'Agree to disagree', respectfully. That's what I would say is the best option, considering. But I have no say in your personal life, and I do not know your friend, so ultimately this bit is up to you. I hope you two are able to work stuff out together, especially as friends who have such a long history together.
As you were around in 2014, you'll remember the update when we were given the maps we have now. They were many varying opinions on this as well, and some even went as far as to say these new maps ruined the game. They didn't. We're all still here, alive and kickin'. I even heard some negative talk about the preset sync before it was implemented, despite the fact I couldn't see anything negative about it myself. Yet now, after experiencing it, almost everyone agrees it's a nifty and beneficial thing. My point is, considering this is something people are scared of before it has even gone through, I think we can only truly pass judgement on it after seeing this new system in action for ourselves. Even if it has bugs and accidentally bans people who are not deserving of it, Raz is not some heartless monster; I'm sure he would lift the bans of those who are undeserving of it. Just as he didn't leave all of our characters in the void and restored them. Do I agree with how Raz went about things? Absolutely not. But we need to remember that everyone is human. Just because someone is in a position of power does not mean it's okay for us to scrutinize their every move and blow things out of perspective when they do something wrong. I guarantee that each and every one of us on this site has done something worse at some point in our lives. Yet we are all here now, and are all trying to better ourselves. Again, I really do not agree with what he did, whatsoever. I think it was completely uncalled for, but even so, let us give Raz the chance the do the same, hm?
As for Raz being a stranger, I believe he's always been a behind the scenes worker. He may have been absent from connecting with the staff team, but even still the server was kept up for us.
I know I may not be able to change your mind, but at the same time I believe it's better to forgive, but don't forget, just keep in mind for the future. Especially as you have apologized, meaning you've asked for forgiveness as well. Focusing on the positive side of things is a lot more beneficial than the negative side of things.