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Game Discussion / Re: Terribly conflicted could use some help
« on: October 05, 2015, 01:07:28 am »
It sounds to me as if you're being trapped in.
Perhaps this person has some serious emotional issues and you're afraid that they may flip if you even consider moving on?
I know it can be hard and I know it can be scary but you must have the courage to tell said person that your characters have their own free will and can decide what they want to do whether you influence the decision of roleplay or not. Since you claim to love them as separate beings then there is no reason for the person to be angry at you because realistically these characters are making decisions on how they're reacting towards being abandon by their mate.

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Game Discussion / Re: I need advice here...
« on: October 03, 2015, 03:46:40 am »
I know this is a rather....well a very late reply to such a topic but I find that several of these posts rather bother me.
First of all suggesting that said female partner is just as full of drama as the group is a sentence that is entirely constructed of poor taste. Many people hold different views of roleplaying and from what you've been telling me Group A sounds rather dark in theme. Whether it is or not I can't help but feel you are not properly evaluating the position you yourself hold in this topic in case it is going on as I have indeed heard some chatter of drama between groups.
Whether you like it or not you must have had some faint idea of what you were getting into. These types of groups usually have various warnings and I'm afraid that you clearly couldn't handle the tastes. Many people treat groups like this as their family and for the record you are not responsible for your girlfriend's characters. I'm pretty sure you'd be upset if you as well had someone constantly looming over your characters. Now I don't know whether this is still going on or not mostly because drama between people and groups tend to last a while.

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Game Discussion / Re: Terribly conflicted could use some help
« on: October 03, 2015, 03:39:12 am »
I can't help but feel as if I've seen you in the game before.....
Maybe I have maybe I haven't xD
However nevertheless I am here to answer a question. Now many people here would merely tell you to stop taking so much interest in the life of mere computer data that's molded,marked, and colored to our delighting. But as you said you have a special bond with your characters, something that makes them alive and such a thing is not easy to find. Nowadays they are all mostly generic and many people may cry over their departure at the end of their years whether it be long or short it is all by our sadistic hand but many would not think of considering them as actual family as I've seen you mention in your previous post.
From what you've been telling me it appears that this so called partner could possibly have a narcissistic disorder or perhaps maybe even a possession problem if they claim that your characters will always be paired with their own yet they can't find the time to properly treat them as mates through simply roleplay? I highly doubt that such a person is always busy and even if they are with another group I'm sure whisper roleplay wouldn't hurt...have you suggested such a thing?
I would highly suggest doing what you think is best for your characters :) If someone is not willing to properly show up at least once every month or so then are they really worth the heart ache she is going through?

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