I've found that RP styles vary drastically depending on who you talk to and where you are. I've seen power play, like you talk about, in public maps such as Bonfire and Ficho - less often in places like Fluorite, but hey, it happens.
People give RP styles a lot of labels, really. Literate, Illiterate, Multi-Para, Wolfspeak, Powerplay/Godmodding/Mary-Sue, etc. Guess it really does depend on the person. I mean I could generalize and say the younger someone is, the more likely they are to power-play like what you experience, but ayy, I don't try to generalize but obviously not all younger players are like that in the least.
Honestly I just tend to not RP at people if they god-mod/powerplay me. Otherwise I just get terribly frustrated in the long run.