UPDATE 2: I re-read the suggestions, and VortexAlive's worked!! I had my home already set to Lonely Cave, but hitting "Reset Home" as well as "Go Home" worked! Originally I had only hit "Go Home" because its...the same place. So I'm not super sure what "Reset Home" changed, but whatever, it worked! Thanks for the help!
UPDATE: I tried logging in on a friend's account and it worked perfectly! Only a few seconds load time. Map connects, everything's great. Try again on my account, it still won't connect to the map server. :/
I have the tab that you have to keep up open and all that and I can login to the game just fine, but it won't connect to the map sever.
I hit try again and it just...keeps trying to connect for ages and nothing happens.
And then if i hit Esc while it's trying to connect for 1000 years, when I try to login again, it won't connect to the front server.
I've restarted my computer [ both just the normal restart and the complete power down and then power back up ] and neither worked.
I was able to connect fine earlier today, and nothing has changed since then, so I don't have any idea what the problem would be.
If you have a suggestion that'd be great, though.
Thanks!