Welcome to FeralHeart, I hope you have a great time! There is a mix of everyone on here both bad and good, but if you look you can find the good ones.
I was ridiculously anti-social in the game when I first started and spent most of my time on the Forums more, now that I look back on it, I am not really sure what it was that I was so worried about if I chatted with anyone. I may of felt like because I was new I would be shunned by the jerks of the community who have been here longer. But it never really happened and most where rather nice, just need to find the right ones. Good Luck!