First off you shouldn't be "trying" to get it. Being helpful and loving should just be in your basic nature, not just because you want a reward. This is why I can agree with this:
Personally, I think you shouldn't care about being nominated...
It's just a forum. Besides, you should be helpful regardless of whether you get anything in return or not. Making things like this seems like you're begging for something rather than really working hard. It looks... Kinda bad?
Often users nominate the users who are seen helping most in the help threads or discussing in the game discussion areas. Users also tend to get nominated if they are very sociable and known by most in game and out. While winning MOTS is a great honor it is by no means the only way to know all the amazing, active, helpful, and generous users we have here. If you think by not getting or having a MOTS title you are not a well liked individual in this community than you are saying most people in this community are not well liked either. There have only been a few winners of MOTS compared to the amount of active users we have in this community. I highly doubt they are the only people really liked lol ^^.
Honestly you shouldn't feel bad about not getting MOTS. It means a lot to get it but means nothing if you don't get it. It's really a great way to keep people engaged in the community since it gives them an incentive to work hard because most people try to make a name for themselves. I've met so many fun, loveable, and just plain out incredible people here without MOTS titles. You don't need a MOTS title to prove anything. What matters is that you know what you do around here and that your own friends love you. MOTS is just for fun and nothing more. Don't think so much into it or let it hurt you if you don't get it. There are tons more MOTS to come and plenty chances if you wanted to get nominated any way.
Every member of this community is a highly valued and loved individual no matter what your status, floof of meter, post count, age etc you're awesome. So chin up and no pity for silly stuff hun <3