Do you or your friend have other markings installed? If so, then. Uh, phooey, lol. If one of you doesn't have any custom markings installed then the with custom markings must move the new marking to the bottom of the default list, but above the rest. If you both have custom markings then make sure you have the same number of custom markings before the new marking. That should work, if not, then i'm not exactly sure how to fix this.