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« on: September 17, 2013, 06:44:53 pm »
I have a theory about that... I think a lot of younger players use movies or anime as an example for how to craft their character, which can seem like a perfectly good idea since people obviously like those characters. The only problem is that those media are usually focused on one central character, the protagonist who, especially in anime, does frequently become 'the best [ninja/racecar driver/giant robot pilot/card game player] ever' and find true love because the writers have to do something with the token female character. So of course that should be what your character does too.
The problem, of course, is that you're never the protagonist of a group RP, because no one is, because RP doesn't work like that. If your character is the best hunter in the pack and always catches more prey than anyone, people won't stand around in admiration proclaiming that he/she will go far and become a great leader one day, they'll just get annoyed and think you're a showoff. Similarly, people in real life and group RPs don't get paired off neatly with their true love by the end of a story arc. Some have other goals they put first. Some think romance is dead. Some just aren't interested for any number or reasons. Even for those who are in relationships, none are perfect, even if they're great and both parties love each other. The only way a 'perfect' relationship exists is in the eyes of people who are still in the 'smitten' phase, and it doesn't last forever, but that isn't a bad thing. The problem is that most RP relationships never make it past the puppy love stage and as a result die out as soon as there's a sign of imperfection, causing one or both to go off distraught and bemoaning their shattered heart, and again expecting others to appreciate their protagonist's tragic plight.
Same thing with mischievous/bratty cubs and rebellious/emo/star-crossed teenagers with inner darkness and whatnot. Those, unfortunately, are the examples the media and ESPECIALLY the internet supplies and idealizes. In real life, while I have met some out-of-control children (it is not an endearing trait), I never met anyone during my teenage years who was remotely the edgy, rebellious romantic that most RP teens are. I mean, there was an unfortunate phase Freshman year of high school when I thought I was, but all the black eyeliner and torn camo jeans in the world didn't change the fact that I was short, socially awkward (and not in the cute, 'drops all their books and bumps into future romantic interest while picking them up' sort of way, I really just didn't know how to interact with people and made up for it by sitting off to one side drawing dragons and trying to look like I was failing at being cool on purpose), and had no idea what I was doing. The ones that did sort of know what they were doing weren't trying to be emo, and everyone was as varied in interests and personality as adults, just with more homework, stress, and hormones.
It's kind of too bad that all of those archetypes have been so overdone, since in moderation they can add interest (okay, except for the Perfect Couples, those are just irritating and tend to clog RP plotlines). I know why it's easy and tempting to make that kind of character, but I don't know why people don't try to branch out more after a while. I get bored trying to RP characters like that. One of my favourites to RP is a robot; he has no aspirations of strength or power whatsoever and literally exists to serve others, and doesn't understand love other than on the most basic, more or less platonic level. He's strong and made mostly out of a titanium alloy, yes, but he also has the Three Laws that prevent him from ever using or wanting to use it. Another character grew up in a wild cat refuge and just wants to get back there, thinking his keepers 'lost' him when he was released into the wild. One other actually is a king and has an adoptive cub (but no mate), and he's not really very good at either one. He rules the kingdom because he has to but would rather be doing other things, and he has no idea what to do with an unruly cub and frequently undermines their relationship by mistake.
It's so much more fun to have various levels of conflict; the third character up there wouldn't work at all if he was a 'good/strong leader,' or wise, or an ideal, loving parent. Plus they actually make it a lot easier to RP with more people, because (though I love running into more complex, less archetypal characters and cling to good RPs when I do find them) both the robot and the human-raised lion make good foils/secondary characters to the more gregarious, ambitious, anime-hero-esque personality types. So I guess there's that.
[Edit: Good gravy this is long, I'm sorry]