i'll step in here and play the left side for a bit, since no one seems to be really bringing that up
firstly to consider is the type of people who are the source of the "whining" we're talking about. odds are they're young, likely under fourteen. at this stage in life, no matter how bad their life 'really' is, its always going to come out tougher than it is in reality
and then, no offense guys, but they're on a 3d animal game, which stereotypically would set them at a weird angle in a social standing at best. this is not to say all are, but, generally.
so you take this kid, this bullied kid, who's parents punish them for bad grades, or punish them for not doing their chores. who has next to no friends (or so they claim), and who is at one of the most confusing points in their lives and their left with:
the whiny kid in general who's harping for attention and taking it out on strangers to vent their emotions.
psychologically, getting things off of your chest is proven to make you feel better, right? your mind at ease now that its not bottled with how horrible everything is.
so you've this messed up little kid, and their only outlet is this game. like for the rest of us, its an escape, however they seem to often bring in their baggage. but you know, everyone brings in their baggage, most of us however just don't throw the suitcase into the middle of a pile of people to make them waft our dirty laundry
and why is this kid throwing their laundry around? because they feel they have no other means to. while i agree with the fact that feral heart's general chat is not the place for it.
those whining are whining for a reason; it may not be what they say it is, but there's still something itching to make a cublet behave like that in the first place.