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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #10 on: February 22, 2013, 10:34:46 pm »
No,Caylis! Don't say that! You're fine. :) It's just people in the game and they reaction of pretending to have a friend. (What I've experience today, but it's not you) -Hugs-

LordSura@: Aww Sura. Thanks for this example. But this people,you know are just..something..But yeah you get my point.

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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #11 on: February 22, 2013, 11:26:24 pm »
I remember the time when I whispered hello to one of my friends and he doesnt remember me any more D:

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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #12 on: February 23, 2013, 12:44:02 am »
What really makes me mad is that you get random friend requests. I looked down and there was a friend request, and I was just sitting there, not talking or rping or anything. Once I accepted a request from someone who I didn't even know then I come on the next day as my lion Ghinjo, and she comes up to me: Ghinjo! :D" Me: (thinking) wtf? I don't even know who you are and what do you want? Then the girl just went and walked off with her friend. I also hate that when you're in an rp that your friend will whisper you: Hi. ITS SO ANNOYING having to switch chats and miss parts of the rp just to say HI. D:<

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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #13 on: February 23, 2013, 12:59:40 am »
Thanks, Thrill for the kind words, I know we'll be here for you, we always were, always are and always will be! <3

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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #14 on: February 23, 2013, 05:21:29 am »
I remember the time when I whispered hello to one of my friends and he doesnt remember me any more D:
Wow. Disrespectful. >.<


What really makes me mad is that you get random friend requests. I looked down and there was a friend request, and I was just sitting there, not talking or rping or anything. Once I accepted a request from someone who I didn't even know then I come on the next day as my lion Ghinjo, and she comes up to me: Ghinjo! :D" Me: (thinking) wtf? I don't even know who you are and what do you want? Then the girl just went and walked off with her friend. I also hate that when you're in an rp that your friend will whisper you: Hi. ITS SO ANNOYING having to switch chats and miss parts of the rp just to say HI. D:<

I know how you feel. This also happened to me. >.<

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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #15 on: February 23, 2013, 05:40:42 am »
I remember the time when I whispered hello to one of my friends and he doesnt remember me any more D:

I hate it when people do that to you.

"Hello :D Long time no see, bro!"

"Who the hell are you?"

Leaves me miserable for the rest of the day.
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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #16 on: February 23, 2013, 05:50:08 am »
I remember the time when I whispered hello to one of my friends and he doesnt remember me any more D:

I hate it when people do that to you.

"Hello :D Long time no see, bro!"

"Who the hell are you?"

Leaves me miserable for the rest of the day.

Totally agree. Like random people add you, and you just have to accept, then when you see them onine. You said hey and said Who are you? And you said "Uh you added me remember" Then they lie..Ect.

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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #17 on: February 23, 2013, 02:45:56 pm »
Did someone say random friend requests? :D



I agree that being ignored by a friend is upsetting-- it's happened to me on my other RPG (roleplaying partner found a new group of friends and left me in the cold; the usual)! Whilst people are inevitably closer to some friends than others, it's no reason to blatantly ignore someone who quips a 'Hello'-- unless they're afk, busy or mid-roleplay and such! I try to respond to everyone, friend or not, though I'll admit it's difficult when you're in the middle of a paragraph of text.

Though, I'm guilty as charged. I'll whole-heartedly admit to not remembering some of the people on my friendslist; I'm often added after a small roleplay session and I accept in the hopes that more will come from it! I generally just remove them from my list after an eternity of silence-- we've evidently never talked or roleplayed if I'm struggling to remember who they are! I'd rather be happy to see a yellow dot, rather than to furrow my brows in confusion and exclaim: "Who's that?".  :-[

(Though, I definitely wouldn't reply with "Who the hell are you?"; I'd chat as normal- that's beyond rude!)

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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #18 on: February 23, 2013, 03:05:02 pm »
Did someone say random friend requests? :D



I agree that being ignored by a friend is upsetting-- it's happened to me on my other RPG (roleplaying partner found a new group of friends and left me in the cold; the usual)! Whilst people are inevitably closer to some friends than others, it's no reason to blatantly ignore someone who quips a 'Hello'-- unless they're afk, busy or mid-roleplay and such! I try to respond to everyone, friend or not, though I'll admit it's difficult when you're in the middle of a paragraph of text.

Though, I'm guilty as charged. I'll whole-heartedly admit to not remembering some of the people on my friendslist; I'm often added after a small roleplay session and I accept in the hopes that more will come from it! I generally just remove them from my list after an eternity of silence-- we've evidently never talked or roleplayed if I'm struggling to remember who they are! I'd rather be happy to see a yellow dot, rather than to furrow my brows in confusion and exclaim: "Who's that?".  :-[

(Though, I definitely wouldn't reply with "Who the hell are you?"; I'd chat as normal- that's beyond rude!)

Whoo! How did got 255 friend request? Is that a a glitch? xD So strange. But I agree with you. When people just ignored me or disrespect me, I just have to take them out of my Friends List! >.< Hate that!
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Re: Friends that really aren't your friends.
« Reply #19 on: February 23, 2013, 06:46:08 pm »

This person started spending a lot of time around the mods and when ever I would see them I'd pass by and say hello or sometimes try to make small talk still since they were my friend but they would instead totally ignore me and continue talking with their group of friends and only greet particular people including the mods. Let me make something clear here before I go on:

I have no problem with the mods or admins. I like and even love some of the mods and admin but what I do have a problem with is people who treat them like they are the only individuals worth any attention in this community. I do not like the type of individuals who play a role around the staff but mistreat or have favoritism and select kindness to everyone else including their own friends the moment they are around the staff. These individuals start to act like they are above other members in the community when in truth we are all part of one whole and should treat one another like we are. Even I have never been mistreated like this by a staff member. No matter how many individuals they have to deal with in a day I have never been ignored by a mod or admin and they do not act as snobbish superiors to the community as some of these non staff individuals do. My point here is if you are kind to forum staff then you should be kind to everyone not just ignore or ditch your former friends or so called "noobs" in the community to just focus all your attention to the staff. People like that that ditch for a particular group of individuals over another are not true friends. I have never done this myself. Sometimes I admit I get overwhelmed by my friends because everyone starts talking at once and I'm not always so good at juggling everyone's conversations simultaneously, but I at least try my best to acknowledge each one. A true friend doesn't ignore or have select friendship. I love all my friends and everyone in this community even non friends and staff alike. A lot of other people need to learn to do the same.

I definatly agree with you there, Sura. Just because they cuddle and mingle with the staff, does not mean that they are above everyone else, or better than everyone else. As you said... they are equal members of the community and should treat everyone else with respect and kindness, instead of being snobbish.

Back on the subject... I have not had any friends do that to me... not that I can remember. -shrug-
I do have many friends in the community, and I admit that I find it hard to pay attention to everyone of them. Since I get involved in so many different RPs, it's hard to find the time to share time with some of the friends I have. I don't try to ignore them when they whisper me. If they say "Hello" to me via whisper, I will say Hello back to them.
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