How to be cool...?

[Chunky_Squirrel]

Okay, so as the title says.... i want to know how can you guys be cool. I'm no cool. I'm lame, everyone is awsome and cool and all..
What does it take to be cool?
I'm not saying that 'i want to be cool and tell me right now, or else' no, nothing like that, i just want you guys to show me or something, that i could be cool or something stuff......

(dish is so lameh. No one will post. ;v; )

[SteampunkWolfdog]

The concept of 'being cool' is extremely subjective. What one person considers cool, another person might consider it uncool. Some people think going out partying is cool, others think staying in and watching a DVD is cool. It all depends on the individual.
So, I don't think there is a particular way to 'be cool'. It's just how people perceive you and how you perceive yourself.

[Chunky_Squirrel]

Oh. Sometimes people see me as a 'dork' -.-'
They think i'm stupid and all, but i'm not.
Anyways, thanks DoctorFlob.

[ritat]

People say your a "D---".
Don't listen to them, because they are the one who called you that.
If you always believe in things that are not useful, your life will have many mistakes.
I am not a cool person, I'm just normal. The only thing that you should do it be kind.
This is where people will likely to stay with you. Cool is like.. hard to be but kind is
different.

Hope     You      Understood. c:

[Lady_Alizarin]

So, I don't think there is a particular way to 'be cool'. It's just how people perceive you and how you perceive yourself.

I agree with what the Doc said. I think the only way to be cool is to be yourself, and not try to do anything or pretend to be something you're not.

Oh. Sometimes people see me as a 'dork' -.-'
They think i'm stupid and all, but i'm not.

As Flob said, it all depends on the individual. There are some people in this world who would believe doing drugs and drinking will make you cool. "Come on, man. Drinking is fun. All the cool kids do it, and if you don't do it then you're a loser." "You aren't cool until you tried the bath salts." Is putting your life in danger really worth being part of the "cool" crowd? I never did any of those things in middle school, high school, or college. Many people saw me as an "uncool" person, because I didn't do all those dangerous, scandalous things the cool kids did. I did'nt care what they thought. I wasn't going to put my life in danger, get arrested if caught, or be killed by drugs. In fact, I attended some of those "cool kid's" funerals because they died from substance abuse, all because they wanted to fit in and be with the other cool kids. I will never forget the sad faces of the grieving parents, family, fellow classmates, and friends.

There are many ways to be precieved as "cool" in moral standards. I've known some people who were considered "cool" because of their kind-hearted personalities. They were happy, friendly, social, active people who everyone could count on because they had such good hearts. I've known some people who were considered "cool" because they had a talent that was liked by a few people; whether their talent was art, music, singing, dancing, etc.

So if some people see you as a "dork", don't mind them. Hang out with people who accept you for you, and see as a "cool" person for the good things you do. Like I said, the best way to be cool is to be yourself, and not try to be someone you're not just to fit in with a "cool kids" clique.

[unnbrellas]

Sometimes people see me as a 'dork' -.-'

I don't see the difference between "Dork" and "cool"
I'm in a "club" called the dork club! I am weird in RL. O.o Crazy Weird
You can never be cool, to everyone, it just depends who you ask. Some might disagree, but your cool:)

So, I don't think there is a particular way to 'be cool'. It's just how people perceive you and how you perceive yourself.

I agree with what the Doc said. I think the only way to be cool is to be yourself, and not try to do anything or pretend to be something you're not.

Oh. Sometimes people see me as a 'dork' -.-'
They think i'm stupid and all, but i'm not.

As Flob said, it all depends on the individual. There are some people in this world who would believe doing drugs and drinking will make you cool. "Come on, man. Drinking is fun. All the cool kids do it, and if you don't do it then you're a loser." "You aren't cool until you tried the bath salts." Is putting your life in danger really worth being part of the "cool" crowd? I never did any of those things in middle school, high school, or college. Many people saw me as an "uncool" person, because I didn't do all those dangerous, scandalous things the cool kids did. I did'nt care what they thought. I wasn't going to put my life in danger, get arrested if caught, or be killed by drugs. In fact, I attended some of those "cool kid's" funerals because they died from substance abuse, all because they wanted to fit in and be with the other cool kids. I will never forget the sad faces of the grieving parents, family, fellow classmates, and friends.

There are many ways to be precieved as "cool" in moral standards. I've known some people who were considered "cool" because of their kind-hearted personalities. They were happy, friendly, social, active people who everyone could count on because they had such good hearts. I've known some people who were considered "cool" because they had a talent that was liked by a few people; whether their talent was art, music, singing, dancing, etc.

So if some people see you as a "dork", don't mind them. Hang out with people who accept you for you, and see as a "cool" person for the good things you do. Like I said, the best way to be cool is to be yourself, and not try to be someone you're not just to fit in with a "cool kids" clique.

I can't add anything to that, its 100% true

[Chunky_Squirrel]

@rita:I'm not saying they tell me that i'am, but i think they look like that.
Everytime i'm not trying to pay attention and tell it to someone, they say: "Don't pay attention" I'm not, i'm just saying, what i feel to say.
@Lady Alizarin:I'm sorry for the lost. Anyways, i'm not saying i want to be 'cool' i'm asking on 'how to be cool'. I just felt to post this thread. Don't know why, but still.
@SilverFangs:Lol. XD Yeah, your right. And thank cha. x)

[ritat]

@rita:I'm not saying they tell me that i'am, but i think they look like that.
Everytime i'm not trying to pay attention and tell it to someone, they say: "Don't pay attention" I'm not, i'm just saying, what i feel to say.
@Lady Alizarin:I'm sorry for the lost. Anyways, i'm not saying i want to be 'cool' i'm asking on 'how to be cool'. I just felt to post this thread. Don't know why, but still.
@SilverFangs:Lol. XD Yeah, your right. And thank cha. x)

Lol! I miss understood you, I thought you wanted to be cool!!! XDD

[Ex0rcist]

I agree with what the Doc said. I think the only way to be cool is to be yourself, and not try to do anything or pretend to be something you're not.

Yar, Hacker... So you want to know "how to be cool"? Lady Alizarin has already made her point well enough. The only way you can be looked at as "cool", is to be yourself. You will have a harder time pretending to be someone you aren't. If people think of you otherwise, then they aren't the friends for you.

You are unique in your own way, thus making you very cool. There is no "how to" in this matter. Just do what you normally do, and everything will eventually work itself out. I can't say anymore mostly since the main points were already stated before me, but I wish you luck in being yourself, finding that group of friends who are perfect for you. ~

[hugrf2]

A "cool" person in my opinion would be someone to take there time for others and to care about their pains like what they are going through sometimes.
There is no real meaning of "cool" to me, and Alizarin pretty much explained what really is and isn't cool.

Everyone has different views in being cool, but just being a caring person who will forgive if someone did something they didn't watch theirselves doing is something I would like to see in someone.
Everyone has different views on what they think is cool.
As I said, there is no meaning of "cool" exactly.
It's just how you view others and yourself, but other people may think one person is lame while you think he is cool.

Just my opinion, truly... Though, I have to agree with Lady Alizarin here.