I think alot of people are just going and looking for active clans or prides or any group for that matter, than say their always on, than leave...I've had this done to me like 20 times now. A group of mine gets people to come together and next thing ya know, poof. Where'd they go?! Its a magic trick now
Ps: Lindsay Im sorry for what happened, I read your topic, and I don't know about Deathstar, but for one thing I hope you know that a strong clan isn't one that brakes in tragedy, it only grows stronger. So yeah, hopefully you'll at least have a good group to grow and prosper with, without any more problems and such.