Actually, when it comes to items and stuff like this, well. It's basically just how the system below is described
-Other User has the same cfg code, materials, textures, & mesh as you do User can see your item
-Other User does not have the same cfg code, materials, textures, or mesh as you do User can-not see your item
Private item or not, unless its what the first thing is, well, no-one can really see it without being able to personally use it themselves. I know, pretty inconvenient, right? But I suppose that's simply how FeralHeart works at the moment, and without Kovu around we can't really do much, nor really suggest much that could help with being able to see private items.