Use a "soft" (right word?) brush. One with a smooth edge. And to add a little glow effect, I use orange (if you use red) and bring out some main points (agein, right word?) in the middle of where it should glow.
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Say if that wasn't understandable, then I give you an example. ^^"Okay, I just made a quick one. It's a bit crappy, but you should see, what I mean.
![](http://i309.photobucket.com/albums/kk381/Wolfswelpe/hilfestellung.png)
Of course you have to use a soft brush for the orange shades, too. Mine looks a bit... yeah, crappy.
![Grin ;D](https://feral-heart.com/smf/Smileys/default/grin.gif)
Um, did you mean that? Does it help you?
![Smiley :)](https://feral-heart.com/smf/Smileys/default/smiley.gif)