thats another problem the front server wont even open also as u can see im in quite a mess so thaks for sticking around and helping me. 
When you log in, does it say something like: "Cannot connect to Front server" or something along the lines of "front server"? Or are you saying that when you try and launch Feral Heart, nothing comes up.
No problem! I'm sorry to hear you are having such a hard time with this..you've got to love technology sometimes, ehehe. xD