Real talk, all the staff are stalkers in their own right. xD We sit in bushes and watch yew. (But then again, it's our job to make sure everybody's safe, so..).
Personally, I'd give myself a 4 as a staffer. Maybe 5 if I think you be causing trouble. -squints- >.> (But that one's rare. xD)
As far as friends go, though, it all depends on how I'm feeling. I'd say a 2, simply because I tend to monitor my friends' list and see who's online pretty frequently, and so sometimes I'll shoot 'em a message or go flop onto them in whatever map they're sitting in. But, other times I just prefer passively hanging out in a map somewhere and conversing with different players. It fluctuates a bunch.