I'm sorry if I sound like I'm lecturing to hard or being rude as I'm not the best at getting my point across, I'm not the best at words, but this is just my opinion on it all...
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Unfortunately "Putting up with people." Is just something you are going have to learn to do in order to run a game.
And I agree with what Sura and Alphabet has said above.
But I've noticed a pattern of this type complaining with several new servers and games popping up in the IT based circuit, because A lot of them hate this 'release' question and all I can think is that, if you don't want these sort of questions so early on, don't even strive to get members right away, or even announce the game on a a website until it is around half completed, or heck even wait till it's almost ready for Beta release.
You'd have more to show then as well in terms of development rather than 'hey im building a server come join my website' because people will more often than not, expect something in return for the time it took them to join up to your game.
This "When is it going to be released" question stems from the fact that most people join server sites to play games, they don't join to sit around on forums all day, because often most of them are not social players they just want to play and collect items...and more often than not I've seen entire websites desolate because the team gave up on the game not even half way and everyone left.
A key to a good game as well is having a team that act professional behind it, which means, talk it, act it, think it....everyone needs to work together and pull their weight at their tasks to get the game out faster and not to mention if everyone is rude in a public way, like how you are writing here, on FH forums, where an awful lot of your players are probably going to flux in from, then people are likely to not want to play a game with that atmosphere.
Even if you do not like how your player base is acting, don't drop to their level and act childish back, you have to put on what I've heard called a "Customer service face" and then if you still want to complain you do it away from public spot light.
As someone before has said though goodluck, I saw some of the cat models you had on the forum and they looked really interesting.