I have only read to page 2 ... but want to weigh in here with my own thoughts and opinions.
The #1 thing that should be fixed (so that all of this can be solved reasonably) is that every player joining FeralHeart should have to agree to abide by a certain set of consistent, proven, roleplay guidelines. I saw another post on here somewhere about RP Etiquette and the fact is that many folks here in FH don't have it.
The Plains for example ... many folks can't/won't download maps so have found a nice spot in the plains to use as a base 'territory'. When a stranger comes into their territory they are naturally (RP wise) going to question them. Sometimes fights break out and it rps smoothly ... most the time the person that invaded a currently running RP is a jerk and brings in their friends and begins to RP on top of you, making reading posts very difficult and RPing all but impossible.
I've seen some folks (when asked nicely) saunter off .... and many many more folks get offended and pissy that you asked them to move elsewhere on a public map! (How dare I be so mean as to ask the random group of strangers that jumped into the middle of my rp move???) Generally accepted RP Etiquette would suggest you find another spot to RP or wait until the current rp group is done/gone.
Now how this applies to RP Fighting .... if everyone knows what is ok and not ok and actually understands, fights become easy as there is a set of guidelines already in place to help everyone get along and everything should flow smoothly. On this note .... OLDER RPERS!!! Make it your responsibility to take the new folks under your wing. TEACH them the proper ways for RPing out fights and RPing in general! Many folks appreciate having a mentor and are MORE than willing to learn how to do things properly or to improve themselves as RPers. I know, it's a drag to teach folks over and over again, but think about how much good you would do for FH for starters ... and then RP environments in the broad spectrum.
Obviously this is going to get flamed by many other folks, but it is my own opinion. Every pack I've been in I've made sure to take in the new RPers and teach them what I know of roleplaying, garnered through six years of various forums and websites (though I have MUCH to learn myself ....)
NOW on to my own flame piece that just drives me up the wall about RP Fights <.<
Speed RP ... what is up with THAT. How can someone justify a fight when you just posted 3 times in a row and killed your opponent? What happened to a 'turn-based' fight system where first one person posts, then the next, so things are done fairly? Should I, or anyone else, always be on the receiving end of 'killing' attacks because their computer can't keep up with A) The posts and B) My typing? And what's wrong with adding details to your post so it becomes more fun to interact with? This is just something that keeps bothering me time and again ....
Now I've heard several times from ... less than kind? ... players that "You should just get a new computer then........" Wow? Really? Because we all have a thousand dollars from Mommy and Daddy to go out and buy a nice, roaring gaming computer?? Yup ... that's the answer right there, thank you so much for giving such great advice -_- Now since that isn't feasible for the majority of us out there in the World Wide Web .... perhaps we can find new means to support fun and interactive RP for all?