Oh yeah~ someone else hates this almost as much as I do~
However, not ALL of FeralHeart uses this "Secret Language"- also known as wolfspeak, which orginated from WolfQuest, which seemed content on filtering literally EVERYTHING related to gender, sexuality, etc. . . which I find ironic, considering the fact that in the single-player game, you basicly just looked for a mate- which is another word that was fiiltered.
I suppose that because several members from WolfQuest began to use these incorrect terms (Some in which were unnesarily created- such as the whole "cranium" for head, and pillars for "legs or paws"), they have managed to wriggle their way into FeralHeart aswell- a common term for this would be the infamous "wolfspeak". As stated before me, they should know that FeralHeart isn't filtered AT ALL, so these terms do NOT have to be used.
I've always found the whole code-words for "male", "female" or "mate" (I believe the code-word for that in WQ was "meat"- which, believe or not, was ALSO filtered,) to be entirely okay, when used in WolfQuest. . . however, this isn't WolfQuest; you don't have to use these.
People need to know that NORMAL TERMS such as the usual "she", "he" "head", etc. . . actually make them appear a bit more intelligient than when they use these stupid terms that do not even MEAN what they are reffering to- and often times it simply confuses people, seeing that the word's defintions aren't entirely clear, especially in the manner in which they describe them- I highly doubt that you would ever picture a wolf waving his "banner" in the air without thinking- "Wait, what?!" first.