...Really? ouo
Personally, I didn't see anything offending on FJ or WG's part. In my eyes, they were being truthful, and 'helpful'. They didn't just say why you weren't accepted, but also gave you some tips. So... How were they being offending?
I qoute on WG "I'm not trying to be mean, but when someone says something that needs to be done in order for you to join, ESPECIALLY the creator of the pride itself, I would listen without question, or else you might not get to join... Again, not being mean, just saying ;3"
^ Helpful
I don't think I could even re-word that slightly to make it sound offending, even WITH taking out "I'm not trying to be mean"
Qoute on FJ "1.) You hassle us when we say no.
2.) You confuse IC with OOC.
3.) You've been known to post multiple times in quick succession.
From this, I gain that you are either young, or a troll. If you are just young, I suggest working with Voodoo, talking a little less on the forum and rping with them ingame. It will give you a feel of how these two prides roll. A lot of the members in Najuru have characters in Voodoo, so we'll be watching how you progress. [ Specifically, I will, since I read everything that's posted in Voodoo, even if I'm not rp-active. ]
Basically, I'm just asking you to stop posting here and when we feel you've improved enough, Blade or I will pm you. And it might be months before that time occurs, but don't be disheartened. I won't haggle any of these points with you, but I'll be more than willing to explain in further detail, if any of my rambling confuses you."
Again, I see that as helpful. I 'don't think' FJ meant any harm when she questioned whether you were young or a troll, as, to be honest, you 'could' of been. There are a lot of trolls about nowadays. She could've said you must be some sort of troll and left it as that, but... she didn't. <:
Even if it may seem as harshness within her words, she was being truthful and helpful, and I stated before; even offering that there might still be a place for you in Najuru, and will even PM you, or you to her, when you've felt you've matured enough. *Not just being mature as in wearing a bank managers suit, but I presume understanding and accepting, rather than trying numerous ways to dance around, hassling "be it unintentional or not", as one is to mature, I'm sure they would understand how they would of been hassling. *Notice I say anonymous one, rather than a personal you*
I also didn't see anything snappy, mad or bossy... ouo
To be honest, Sabi, I don't think you'll find there was any offence intended, or 'failing to understand thoughts and emotions'.
But rather, perhaps, if anything, a misunderstanding between both parties.
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At any point! I hope someday to DO see you within the Najuru Pride! And it's a shame you didn't get accepted but... some day dude! O3O