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Offline Ahidi01

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« Reply #270 on: May 11, 2011, 12:52:27 am »
Actually that will be prob exactly what Kusa'll say..nice one Fj

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« Reply #271 on: May 11, 2011, 12:23:18 pm »
Okay, you guys, i am fully aware that i have been so immature lately, and have really no good reason to explain. All i have to say is, i am sorry for the way i have been acting lately, it is most definitely not how i normally behave. I feel terrible about that and promise to act more, well, better i could say. I again sincerely apologizes for my *horrible ways.*

~Liyese~



so, can we start over?





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« Last Edit: May 11, 2011, 12:25:16 pm by Liyese »


sure im in love, but at least im in love. <3

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« Reply #272 on: May 11, 2011, 02:47:45 pm »
If you were on my forum, then I would've never gotten mad at you, Liy. I think the bossy teens that try to take over everything on here need to understand that there are young children on her and pre-teens. They also need to understand how these young kids act and try not to be so rude about it.

You are all going to come across desperate people on here, and depending on their age, there is no reason to get mad, snappy, or bossy. :)
I'm not a kid, I'm 18, but I fully understand why you acted the way you did. I know I don't have as much say as FJ and WG, but I can at least express my opinion. Ttfn. :3

Also, Liy, if these guys are too harsh on you and don't understand your thoughts and feelings, then don't even bother with them. Find a group a little less younger and less... harsh on young kids. I am honestly offended of how they treated you, because you are young and they don't completely get that young people will basically do what they feel is best. Even if that means by talking back and being annoying. :P I can tell you are young because of the way you talk and your age is 12 on your profile. :) There is nothing wrong with being imature at that age. This almost makes me want to quit this clan. I think WG and Fj should apologize and hopefully feel a little shame. And now that you, Liy, have apologized, I'm almost expecting it. I wouldn't be surprised if I get kicked because of this, but I can understand and deal with young kids properly.
So yeah. I'm ranting now. I am sorry if I've offended FJ and WG, but I gotta speak up if something is bothering me.
« Last Edit: May 11, 2011, 03:03:17 pm by Sabi »

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« Reply #273 on: May 11, 2011, 04:04:03 pm »
Thank you for saying that, Sabi. At least someone out there actually is listening! *grins* But whatever, i don't ever really give much thought to what anyone has to say. If it is directed to be offensive, then be it. I never contemplate these things long, or they will start to get to you. I just go with the flow.
This pride seems to have it going, and i will likely still want to join. I'm gonna make a entirely new character to apply with. Maybe i ill even see you there!

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EDIT: o my gosh! sabi, what is up with your karma!!!! *nuzzles*  :D


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« Reply #274 on: May 11, 2011, 05:04:59 pm »
...Really? ouo

Personally, I didn't see anything offending on FJ or WG's part. In my eyes, they were being truthful, and 'helpful'. They didn't just say why you weren't accepted, but also gave you some tips. So... How were they being offending?

I qoute on WG "I'm not trying to be mean, but when someone says something that needs to be done in order for you to join, ESPECIALLY the creator of the pride itself, I would listen without question, or else you might not get to join... Again, not being mean, just saying ;3"

^ Helpful

I don't think I could even re-word that slightly to make it sound offending, even WITH taking out "I'm not trying to be mean"

Qoute on FJ "1.) You hassle us when we say no.
2.) You confuse IC with OOC.
3.) You've been known to post multiple times in quick succession.

From this, I gain that you are either young, or a troll. If you are just young, I suggest working with Voodoo, talking a little less on the forum and rping with them ingame. It will give you a feel of how these two prides roll. A lot of the members in Najuru have characters in Voodoo, so we'll be watching how you progress. [ Specifically, I will, since I read everything that's posted in Voodoo, even if I'm not rp-active. ]

Basically, I'm just asking you to stop posting here and when we feel you've improved enough, Blade or I will pm you. And it might be months before that time occurs, but don't be disheartened. I won't haggle any of these points with you, but I'll be more than willing to explain in further detail, if any of my rambling confuses you."


Again, I see that as helpful. I 'don't think' FJ meant any harm when she questioned whether you were young or a troll, as, to be honest, you 'could' of been. There are a lot of trolls about nowadays. She could've said you must be some sort of troll and left it as that, but... she didn't. <:

Even if it may seem as harshness within her words, she was being truthful and helpful, and I stated before; even offering that there might still be a place for you in Najuru, and will even PM you, or you to her, when you've felt you've matured enough. *Not just being mature as in wearing a bank managers suit, but I presume understanding and accepting, rather than trying numerous ways to dance around, hassling "be it unintentional or not", as one is to mature, I'm sure they would understand how they would of been hassling. *Notice I say anonymous one, rather than a personal you*

I also didn't see anything snappy, mad or bossy... ouo

To be honest, Sabi, I don't think you'll find there was any offence intended, or 'failing to understand thoughts and emotions'.

But rather, perhaps, if anything, a misunderstanding between both parties.

..

At any point! I hope someday to DO see you within the Najuru Pride! And it's a shame you didn't get accepted but... some day dude! O3O
« Last Edit: May 11, 2011, 05:14:47 pm by SoulSinger »

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« Reply #275 on: May 11, 2011, 09:10:10 pm »
I feel no shame or remorse for one reason.

It seems to have helped Liyese. I mean, she came back with fluent typing, and appears better-presented.

You'll realize I have a lack of empathy in most cases or I have a social awkwardness. This means I can't joke like most people can, I sound angry or rude when I am not, or don't intend, to be.

I'm a work in progress, myself.

But I'm not offended, Sabi, so don't worry about that on my end. I met Liyese ingame once [Kelsie/WalterGirl was there too], and she made a point to ask why Voodoo was so popular [slightly hinting that it shouldn't be], and claimed IT must have been better than FH, and said she'd never played IT. I've heard a lot of people saying that--people who have never played IT. This means I'm reserved with her. I don't want stuff to dampen the mood like that.

And Soul is right about the troll thing. There are many--my ex-boyfriend is one. If there's uncertainty in my mind, I will speak about it, and that's why we're not push overs.

I was bullied for years and years, and I've realized one thing that helps people. Point them where to go, and slap them on the back, telling them to toughen up/wise up/mature. It helps most people, not all, but most.

She's twelve? I see. Again, there's no disrespect intended for the age--but I stand by what I said. When someone points out problems, even if it's rude and cruel, there's always a possibility to improve the issues if the direction is pointed out to them, or they find their own way.

And I did suggest a place for her to receive help. So telling her she should find friendlier people was already stated, with a specific place.

But, while I'm not offended, I am a bit hurt. Hurt because once more, I'm misunderstood because I'm no-nonsense, within a group I felt comfortable within.

On to other topics.

I'm glad I got the general concept of Kusa so well, Ahi >3
« Last Edit: May 11, 2011, 09:13:02 pm by [F]inal [J]ump »

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« Reply #276 on: May 11, 2011, 09:17:53 pm »
I understand completely, FJ. Sorry for the judgmental thoughts of mine.
I see little things between two people with a big age difference, and I'm always afraid it could turn into bullying. And It wasn't you mostly, but no offence to either of you, I find WG a little offending more than you or anyone else. It may be my misunderstanding of her, or I just don't take joking lightly...
But still, sorry for the misunderstanding. I get defensive when it comes to youngin's. :P It wasn't you, promise. :)

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« Reply #277 on: May 11, 2011, 09:31:24 pm »
K. Everything seemed settled. No more talk of this on the thread please. Najuru is friendly to all ages. But, We do have a Roleplay rule. We are not hard asses or teenage jerks. I'm almost 23. We just want the environment to be friendly for all. We try to help, not yell at anyone. So please, lets put this behind us and move on. It could easily have been a miswording or misunderstanding is all. ^.^

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« Reply #278 on: May 11, 2011, 09:47:42 pm »
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« Reply #279 on: May 11, 2011, 10:16:05 pm »
Accepted~

Be sure that Tempestade's tail tip and tuft are the same color, and when you can, link an updated pic. x3

Welcome to Najuru, Kieva!

...I swear I didn't say that to the last applicant. Pffft /idiot and forgets